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awesome!  keep up your chin and remember to live in the moment....big hugs!

posted by Annicita on September 26, 2014 at 9:17 AM | link to this | reply

Jean

It's so good to see you getting back into a 'normal if different' life...

posted by Nautikos on September 26, 2014 at 5:00 AM | link to this | reply

You are ...just stupendous!  Can't keep a good lady down!

posted by adnohr on September 25, 2014 at 8:46 PM | link to this | reply

Live for each of them love.

posted by BC-A on September 25, 2014 at 2:25 PM | link to this | reply

dear sweet kind and loving Jean. What a great way to spend your BFF. Birthday and without you, would she have had so much fun? I doubt it.

stick close to your Sons and your friends. They are the biggest help. Divorce is a lot like death, it is final except that occassionally one sees him. So think of yourself now as a widow and a freedom to do what pleases you. So many hugs that i have for you, you must feel them coming your way.

posted by Kabu on September 25, 2014 at 11:25 AM | link to this | reply

You are really sweet Jean. Perhaps you do not realize but there are many folk here that do not see a person from one week to another. If one is caring for someone with dementia the saddest thing is that one finds oneself bereft of company. When I was delivering eggs to some customers they used to almost embarrassingly will me to stay for a few minutes just for company. Why they do not mix is sometimes the fear that

a person will overstay their welcome, or a kind of class structured feeling which is not applicable these days anyway. it is so strange really.

  

posted by C_C_T on September 25, 2014 at 11:03 AM | link to this | reply

A powerful entry, I find this to be...I love your positive attitude.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on September 25, 2014 at 10:00 AM | link to this | reply

What a lovely way to spend your friend's birthday.  You'll get through this, Jean.  We love you more than you know.

posted by lovelyladymonk on September 25, 2014 at 9:34 AM | link to this | reply