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There you go - you fall, but you get back up. And as time goes by, you will fall less and less. It's great that you found work - it helps keep our mind busy, doesn't it?

posted by adnohr on September 14, 2014 at 2:29 AM | link to this | reply

good for you on changing the locks and securing the house....sending positive energy your way

posted by Annicita on September 10, 2014 at 2:01 PM | link to this | reply

Re: JS

naut, my lawyer has described my husband as delusional.

posted by jeansaw on September 9, 2014 at 4:00 PM | link to this | reply

Re: llm

i am so happy to be back working, it takes some of the money worries off of me and it takes my mind off of myself.

posted by jeansaw on September 9, 2014 at 3:59 PM | link to this | reply

Re: jeansaw

bc-a yes, if you think of it quite quickly, thank goodness.

posted by jeansaw on September 9, 2014 at 3:58 PM | link to this | reply

Re: cct

yes, losing doggies is a terrible thing.  lol, no i am keeping my soap, i threw all his dirty clothes in the hamper away and a few other things.  didnt think of shredding them first.

posted by jeansaw on September 9, 2014 at 3:57 PM | link to this | reply

Re: fsi

life is strange and sometimes funny, all we can do is go forward.

posted by jeansaw on September 9, 2014 at 3:54 PM | link to this | reply

Re: Jimmy

i am trying to do just that, some days i do a fine job of it and others i fall down but i get back up.

posted by jeansaw on September 9, 2014 at 3:53 PM | link to this | reply

Re: As Kabu says, he is the real loser here.

ciel, matt 5:44 says it all.

posted by jeansaw on September 9, 2014 at 3:52 PM | link to this | reply

Re: kabu

thank you for the encouragement.  and i do not care about her, i pray for my husband.

posted by jeansaw on September 9, 2014 at 3:50 PM | link to this | reply

JS

Your ex actually sounds weird! But the main thing is that you are getting your own life back on an even keel, leaving all that pain behind you...

posted by Nautikos on September 8, 2014 at 7:27 PM | link to this | reply

Glad you found work, Jean.

posted by lovelyladymonk on September 8, 2014 at 3:53 PM | link to this | reply

jeansaw

I'm glad to read that things are moving along love.

 

posted by BC-A on September 8, 2014 at 2:30 PM | link to this | reply

Well lets face it Jean it was not the life a nice person like you deserve. Your son does not seem to think that you deserved such treatment, of course it hurts, but so does losing a doggy. Be firm and don't give your soap away, that was really funny, perhaps you could have thrown in a flannel. One woman I know shredded all her ex's clothes, but I know you are not like that.    

posted by C_C_T on September 8, 2014 at 11:20 AM | link to this | reply

You are doing a fine job moving on.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on September 8, 2014 at 10:58 AM | link to this | reply

That's called picking yourself up, dusting yourself off, and moving on! Good for you . . . 

posted by JimmyA on September 8, 2014 at 6:00 AM | link to this | reply

As Kabu says, he is the real loser here.

He may not realize it yet, but in time, he will. And you will get on with your life, and all the caring and love you've invested in building your life will be there for you. 

 

posted by Ciel on September 8, 2014 at 5:54 AM | link to this | reply

Good for you because the reality of what he has done will bite now. Of course "she" hates you imagining that "she" was going to be living in your house and have your life......but who cares about her. Your children are with you, he has at this moment lost everything, he will have to find his way. I am saying prayers of thanks for your strength and that you are finding your way. Girl...you Rock!!!! you didn't ask for this but since it was lobbed onto you. you are Wonderful!!!

posted by Kabu on September 7, 2014 at 1:21 PM | link to this | reply