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I am sorry. I hope you don't even bother to pick up the pieces, let them fall where they will and take the new woman out of this with a new guide line for personal joy. I am glad the children are older and understand. I shall pray for you.
posted by
Justi
on August 24, 2014 at 9:35 PM
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You are right, of course - a new Jean will emerge from this event.
posted by
adnohr
on August 22, 2014 at 1:45 AM
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my 
goes out to you...divorce is never easy no matter who wants it and reasons behind it....big hug
posted by
Annicita
on August 21, 2014 at 6:46 PM
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Of course it hurts, you are a kind sensitive woman and still feel in a way responsible for your ex. Believe me Jean you are one in a thousand. It is nice that your Children are supportive although they have a certain loyalty maybe to their father in a sad way. I do believe all of us feel for you. Your blogs were so happy only a while ago, different people have different ways of dealing with things, tears may help you where others might go berserk. Just don't let it ruin your lovely personality.
posted by
C_C_T
on August 21, 2014 at 11:47 AM
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You do a great job conveying emotion.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on August 20, 2014 at 6:53 PM
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Darling Jean...Mothers name was Jean... OK if the crying is done then justifyable anger is allowed. You have things to be angry at him for but channel the anger...
What I did once...I got a whole lot of things that symbolized the man and put them in a pile in the middle of the room. Then I got a couple of cushions and I told that symbol all that was in my heart. All the pain all of the neglect all of the being called stupid all that hurt me......you get the idea. And I walked around the pile of stuff and threw the cushions at it over and over and over...when I was exhausted I felt so much better. I never had any need to try to tell him what a shit I really thought that he was/is. I did not have to appear fair are civilized or it takes two to be wrong...nothing. It was my turn to be in control and it felt goooood!! It was private but because he was there in symbol...he copped the lot...A truested girlfriend can do this with you if tou are really close.
Another thing that you touch on...other folks...I was so angry when I met people in the street or whatever,and their eyes said make this easy for me!!!!gr
posted by
Kabu
on August 20, 2014 at 9:36 AM
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jeansaw
I hope and pray that life goes on love. Good luck and may God bless.
posted by
BC-A
on August 20, 2014 at 6:46 AM
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