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They will lose respect if they can run over you and your work will lose it's quality. I work all the time on becoming a smoother, cooler person working with a high strung, aggressive person! and people.
posted by
mariss9
on August 16, 2013 at 11:00 AM
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Re: KABU
posted by
Kabu
on August 14, 2013 at 11:44 AM
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TAPS
It is unbelievable the nerve of some.
posted by
Dr_JPT
on August 13, 2013 at 6:50 PM
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NAUT
You are so right!
posted by
Dr_JPT
on August 13, 2013 at 6:49 PM
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Simone
Thanks. I appreciate your words. 
posted by
Dr_JPT
on August 13, 2013 at 6:48 PM
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DrJ
Respect seems to be a rare commodity these days...
posted by
Nautikos
on August 13, 2013 at 6:02 PM
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Re: Dr_JPT
Then they have no excuse for their behavior. Too bad people can be that way.
posted by
TAPS.
on August 13, 2013 at 5:42 PM
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I think that no matter what you should demand respect from all around you. If you helped them to overcome a deficiency and they show they have ...good for you! but to use what t hey learned with your help to disrespect you is rude and you should not let it go as them showing their progress. Your "defending" yourself by answering them back is not only appropriate but necessary for them to learn that kindness does not equal weakness. Be well xoxoxo
posted by
Sinome
on August 13, 2013 at 5:30 PM
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FormerStudentIntern
I agree.
posted by
Dr_JPT
on August 13, 2013 at 5:27 PM
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JimmyA
It requires patience!!! You are right about the respect. So many are disrespectful!
posted by
Dr_JPT
on August 13, 2013 at 5:26 PM
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BC-A
I won't. I just hate battle with these jerks. 
posted by
Dr_JPT
on August 13, 2013 at 5:24 PM
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KABU
You are correct and I seem to have more in my life than I real care to have.
posted by
Dr_JPT
on August 13, 2013 at 5:23 PM
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LostInLife
I agree with you in theory but the way they show that they know is disrespectful. I am learning to deal with it better than previously.
posted by
Dr_JPT
on August 13, 2013 at 5:22 PM
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CCT
You nailed it and I cannot seem get them to become independent.
posted by
Dr_JPT
on August 13, 2013 at 5:20 PM
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TAPS
They did. I give help when asked or in case of emergency. I do not give unsolicited help.
posted by
Dr_JPT
on August 13, 2013 at 5:18 PM
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Just curious, did they as for the help to begin with?
posted by
TAPS.
on August 13, 2013 at 4:15 PM
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Well I think you have probably removed the boundary and folk feel a little resentful.
Instead of praising you they express built up frustration. Might be wrong.
posted by
C_C_T
on August 13, 2013 at 11:58 AM
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I agree they should show you some respect. Maybe you should be flattered? After all, if you have instructed them to overcome something and they are doing it (however not exactly how you meant) they are still listening to you and putting to actions your training?
Maybe I am way off the mark too .. 
posted by
SomeoneElse
on August 13, 2013 at 4:44 AM
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No some people are just A-holes!!!!!!
posted by
Kabu
on August 12, 2013 at 1:41 PM
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Don’t let them have a free for all with you love. BC-A, Bill’s R®st
posted by
BC-A
on August 12, 2013 at 1:31 PM
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JimmyA's idea of a lack of respect makes sense to me.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on August 12, 2013 at 12:30 PM
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I must admit I don't think I've ever been in that exact situation, but from where I sit, I think it may come down to a simple case of "respect." Some people just don't accept or realize when others are trying to help them, and find excuses to lash out for their own reasons. I assume this requires a lot of patience on the part of the teacher/instructor, something I myself have trouble with from time to time . . .
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JimmyA
on August 12, 2013 at 6:00 AM
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