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sam
More messy stuff with that money - I don't know what to suggest! I just hope you'll make the right decision...
posted by
Nautikos
on July 5, 2013 at 7:10 PM
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I understand completely. My sister-in-law is like that. She wants my imprisoned brother to give her everything he worked hard for and property that our Dad gave him. Foolishly he added her name. I am letting the process take its course.
It difficult but not impossible. Avoid spite. Figure out a way that you can live okay now, get your share and let go of the EX by creating a new life for you.
posted by
Dr_JPT
on July 5, 2013 at 2:13 AM
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I have never heard that you have to share you retirement, mine didnt get any of mine and I dont know if he had any. I was allowed to draw his social security but it was only be 12 dollars more it wasnt worth it
posted by
Lanetay
on July 4, 2013 at 9:50 AM
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Strange
that he would be legally entitled to anything at all - it's your retirement that you worked hard for. If you're not currently married to him, I fail to understand why anyone (the ex or the law) would think he deserved a share...
Happy 4th of July, I hope you're able to beat the heat and enjoy some celebrations today!
posted by
Mia890
on July 4, 2013 at 8:37 AM
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Happy 4th of July and cooler weather to boot.
I could get use to 90 degree tempatures. A cushion? Great, so now you can go and enjoy your Sons wedding.
posted by
yellowrose55
on July 4, 2013 at 8:35 AM
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Darn, Sam! No wonder you have headaches!!! Saw yesterday that one could cook cookies in a car in Boise. Oof!!! Happy 4th to you!
posted by
adnohr
on July 4, 2013 at 7:02 AM
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Yes, I believe that things will work out too.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on July 3, 2013 at 7:44 PM
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a nice 75 degrees here....
tee hee...Can I put pills in the ex's coffee?
Now, I wonder if we could smuggle the money ...all of it...into Canada ....or Australia even....hmnnn
We gotta look after you somehow darlin'.
posted by
Kabu
on July 3, 2013 at 4:19 PM
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It was 104 here yesterday and I don't have much hope for cooler weather today...Seems funny when the weather man says "cool down to the mid 90's) right...Good luck on the house Sam.
posted by
UtahJay
on July 3, 2013 at 1:31 PM
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It seems to me my temper is quicker to flash in very hot weather.
Maybe when the weather cools, and your money issues do the same, all the rest will feel like a cool breeze over the lake as well. I can certainly understand your frustration.
posted by
Pat_B
on July 3, 2013 at 1:19 PM
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sam444
Oh gosh this could be your gardening blog on hot peppers. Good green luck love. Keep cucumber cool! BC-A, Bill's R
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posted by
BC-A
on July 3, 2013 at 12:48 PM
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It may not hurt to save the retirement for the future anyway. It seems right to leave the issue for another time other than the wedding. I hope you can get an agreeable deal on the house; something should work out anyway. I, too have learned a few things from being conned and used, although I feel there is more insight to go. 
posted by
mariss9
on July 3, 2013 at 12:39 PM
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