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It will never be the same.  I have been in similar position many times.  I find females who have males with money, status or positions like to put female friends and relatives in a one down position.  Though on the surface she refers to you as a friend, she feels better than you and will treat you as a servant or the way people treat their maids/help. 

My mom, cousins, family and friends always choose friends who they think are less attractive or intelligent, etc. so that all females around will know they are the best. It is an inferiority complex that they must prove to themselves they are not.

You have three choices: fight it, get away from it or go with it.

posted by Dr_JPT on August 10, 2013 at 6:30 AM | link to this | reply

There are a lot of people that leave us clueless love. BC-A, Bill's Rst

posted by BC-A on July 2, 2013 at 2:17 PM | link to this | reply

Thank you, LLM

I do want to find out what caused her to feel this way all of a sudden, but I am afraid to ask for fear her answer may hurt of anger me even more. *sigh* Hubby says we should hash things out, but I feel I will never feel the same way about her again after this.

posted by Jemmie211 on April 29, 2013 at 1:00 AM | link to this | reply

I'm so sorry Jemmie.  It really does hurt when someone who is supposed to be a friend treats you this way suddenly and for no apparent reason.  But you know what, sweetie?  If that's the way she has decided to treat you, she isn't worthy of your friendship.

posted by lovelyladymonk on April 22, 2013 at 2:28 PM | link to this | reply

Jimmy and Anicita

Both the female and the male are (were) friends.  I wrote of her as "the female half" to prevent myself from giving her name.  Because, yes, even though I am incredibly hurt by finding out she doesn't trust me, I still feel the need to protect her.  So she is "the female half" of the couple.  I really have no idea if the male half feels the same way she does.  I actually saw him today, and he acted completely normal with me.  But who knows....

posted by Jemmie211 on April 20, 2013 at 1:25 AM | link to this | reply

i agree with jimmya...why do you call her the female half...why not refer to her by her name or her ... the female half is very distant and to me not a compliment....not sure either what is going on....why not ask?

posted by Annicita on April 19, 2013 at 12:25 PM | link to this | reply

One thing that confuses me about this is that you say she is ( was ) a true friend, but you continually referred to her as the "female half," as though her husband was really the friend, and she was more or less along for the ride. Something is definitely amiss, and it's obviously time to reevaluate your relationship with these people . . .

posted by JimmyA on April 19, 2013 at 5:17 AM | link to this | reply