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Apathy is a classic symptom of depression

and health issues are a classic cause.  

Ditto, lack of energy, withdrawal and isolating.

Depression is psychological, but also physiological: brain chemistry out of whack. This makes it eminently treatable.

posted by Ciel on September 10, 2012 at 7:04 AM | link to this | reply

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Oh lovelylady, you couldn't hurt me if you tried! My husband did tell me the other day that he thought he might be depressed so we obviously will be pursuing that. Otherwise, I am praying.

posted by tamijo on September 9, 2012 at 2:59 PM | link to this | reply

I wish I could give some advice...

But all I can give is empathy! *hugs* My thoughts go out to you! Stay strong!

posted by Jemmie211 on September 8, 2012 at 11:10 PM | link to this | reply

Tamijo,

I am so sorry to be reading your hardships once more.  Honey, I'm no expert on marriage-I've never been married myself and am not likely to be-but I think it's time for you to start putting yourself ahead a bit more.  If your husband only seems interested in his alcoholic and addict friends, maybe it's time to call it quits...even if only temporarily. 

Like I say, don't take anything I say too much to heart-I'm no good at the opposite sex.  Could it be that he's depressed and can't find the way to let you know?  It is a possibility.

I don't know what to say...Just pray.  God knows far better than I.  Hope I haven't hurt you with anyting I've said here.  If so, I humbly appologise.

posted by lovelyladymonk on September 8, 2012 at 3:03 PM | link to this | reply

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I know you're right TAPS. I'm trying to change my attitude but it's so hard when I feel like I get smacked down every time. I just need to pray harder I guess.

posted by tamijo on September 8, 2012 at 2:55 PM | link to this | reply

Re: i am out of my depth with this one ...all I can do dear is Pray for you

I don't know Kabu. I'm working on it.

posted by tamijo on September 8, 2012 at 2:53 PM | link to this | reply

All I know for sure is that you cannot change anyone else no matter how hard you try.  You can only make changes in yourself, in your own attitude, in your own way of doing things.  It may or may not help him to get going in the right direction too.  If it does--good.  If it doesn't--at least you have helped yourself.

posted by TAPS. on September 8, 2012 at 2:38 PM | link to this | reply

i am out of my depth with this one ...all I can do dear is Pray for you

both. I am sorry about the financial debt and I do know that money worries can really destroy a fragile relationshhip. is there anyone that just you can ask for a short term loan from that you can pay back. Just to keep the house?

posted by Kabu on September 8, 2012 at 12:35 PM | link to this | reply

I am not sure what can be done. Here's hoping for the best.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on September 8, 2012 at 12:28 PM | link to this | reply

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