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I didn't see anything wrong with the comment! sam
posted by
sam444
on May 27, 2011 at 2:51 PM
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Tzippy - I've read some of Victoria's posts, and I think she is just very direct and never meant to insult you. She seems to be very aware of the pressure on women where casual sex is concerned - I do believe she would say this to any woman who wondered what she, Victoria, would think about an attitude such as David's - I doubt it was anything personal.
posted by
adnohr
on May 26, 2011 at 11:28 PM
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I don't know what that girl was implying...
but I think many of us could use a little work on our confidence and self-esteem. If you do need work, I'm sure you know in what areas.. you seem really good that way.. at knowing yourself.
I also believe that so many people are dishonest. I am pretty much an introvert, so I can't ever say that I have been an open book, except with the few men that I have been very close to.
I dislike and don't much trust people in general... not really as individuals, but people as a whole, I feel are very bad. Maybe it's just my perception?
Sorry, it's been awhile. I'll try to be by more often as summer rolls in and when I finally finish up working with the kids, hopefully I will feel more like blogging.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on May 26, 2011 at 7:29 PM
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I am sorry that there was a mistake in communication....I have been
guilty of comments that hurt someone over the years .....and one feels real bad....as does the recipient.
posted by
Kabu
on May 26, 2011 at 6:11 PM
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I myself used to bare a lot more of the soul on this site.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on May 26, 2011 at 11:13 AM
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People can veiw such issues a lot diffently. One might interpret it as a lack of confidence, another might see it as caution and/or moral qualms. It depends on your viewpoint. Asking can yield a lot of different responses. One who tries from the very beginning might be a little much even for a more liberal thinker. Romance issues can be the hardest to figure out.
posted by
mariss9
on May 26, 2011 at 9:20 AM
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The written word as well can be so easily misinterpreted. I tend to be cautious when before hitting the send button on an email. I read it and re-read it through the other person's eyes wondering how it might possibly be misconstrued. A little bit of guardedness is good.
posted by
Troosha
on May 26, 2011 at 9:00 AM
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