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Re: luweegie
Wiley I'm SO PROUD of you for giving up the DRINK!! I'm trying to get through my story faster just for you because I don't want to make you sad much longer! :) I'm sure you've had enough sadness in your life already. I'm even leaving some of it out because NOT even I want to think about it anymore..........................It's GOOD that you can find something to "admire" about someone you spent such painful times with. I was thinking about the "good times" with my Kids' Dad just yesterday. There weren't many but the good times were really good! I'm sad to say that I still can't say I admire anything about him. I wish I could get past it and forgive. Such freedom comes with forgiveness and I have forgiven others but I have a really hard time forgiving him AND myself for the suffering we put our children through.
posted by
luweegie
on April 7, 2011 at 2:20 PM
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thanks! I cannot even believe my Grandmother had SIXTEEN kids!! That has to cause some damage to your body!
posted by
luweegie
on April 7, 2011 at 2:13 PM
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Re: They left the ovary so that you would have some hormones and not experience
Yes Kabu, I know that's why they left it but what they didn't tell me was the NASTY little MOOD ALTERING thing I WOULD go through in later years not even knowing (for awhile) that's what ws happening. I was very fortunate with evry thing else. I think I may have had THREE hot flashes but MY GOD my POOR POOR hubby who went through all that craziness with me and is STILL with me...................He has to LOVE me a LOT to still be with me believe me! I couldn't event stand to be around myself!! LOL That's all in the past though THANK GOD!!
posted by
luweegie
on April 7, 2011 at 2:12 PM
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luweegie
Good for you on knowing when ehough was enough. I lived through that too but as an active alcoholic at that time I wasn't much help. Being a Catholic I was a really screwed up alcoholic and the 'laws' of Catholicism made me unable to think for myself. Well my ex, like you, did what had to be done and she stopped the babies at 5. I admire her for that anyway.
posted by
WileyJohn
on April 7, 2011 at 9:23 AM
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I would have been with you, after all we know what we can and can't carry! Amen to you for knowing and staying firm! sam
posted by
sam444
on April 7, 2011 at 5:17 AM
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They left the ovary so that you would have some hormones and not experience
instant and nasty menopause......was it necessary...well you did get a second opinion so perhaps...but yes, many women had the chop just so someone else could get rich.
posted by
Kabu
on April 6, 2011 at 8:20 PM
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