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Re: I'm so sorry you and other members of your family went thru this. How
Thanks! I'm sure the term "Am I Invisible" struck a chord with you in a different way. It's very odd that the very thing that turned you OFF about your Dad will be the FIRST thng that you will find "attractive in a man of your choice" that sounds awful and SICK but the Father of my children WAS a sex maniac from hell and seemed to be addicted to sex, alcohol, weed, and drugs and ALLERGIC to work or anything that might improve our lives. WHY would I be attracted to someone like that? FIRST BAD CHOICE! The only good thing he gave me was MY CHILDREN and between he and my Dad they created a MONSTER in ME.
My daughter too is the only girl with four older brothers. I warned her about anybody touching her in the wrong places from the time she was THREE! I'm sure I made her TOTALLY paranoid of men! She married when she was 18 and had one daughter of her own. Her marriage wasn't good and she missed out on a lot of good things. I WONDER if that was MY fault!! She has now been divorced for about three years and is happier than I've ever seen her. I honestly HOPE that you haven't or didn't make these bad choices in men before you realized it.............................
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luweegie
on February 26, 2011 at 2:41 PM
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I'm so sorry you and other members of your family went thru this. How
horrible...it's brave and good of you to share and start this blog. I was raised in a home with four older brothers and I was the only girl. I am lucky (and blessed) that this never happened to me. I had the opposite problem -- a dad that showed no emotional interest in me. Believe me, that has its consequences as well, though nothing like what you went thru, I'm sure. Welcome to Blogit.
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Ariala
on February 26, 2011 at 12:56 PM
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