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ONLY YOU KNOW YOUR HUSBAND, WHETHER HE WILL NEED
TO HEAR FROM YOU EVERYDAY OR SECOND DAY...YOU HAVE TO FOLLOW YOUR OWN FEELINGS ON THST ONE BUT I would advise you not to load him at this delicate stage with one of your problems...don't deny them just don't mention them.He  won't be able to haandle pressure nor do you want to give him an excuse to try to leave. egg shell walking at present you poor love. But you can vent your problems here.

posted by Kabu on January 30, 2011 at 5:27 PM | link to this | reply

Well, you know him best..follow your instincts?
If it were me, I would try to find a balance, stay in touch enough for him to feel loved but not share every thought because it may overwhelm him....and I would respond to his communications as evenly as possible; again, wanting to be careful not to overwhelm as this situation is new for all involved. My take..as they say, One day at a time.

posted by Raye09 on January 30, 2011 at 4:39 PM | link to this | reply