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It is his problem.  You have not done anything wrong.  I think he used you.

posted by Amanda__ on November 2, 2010 at 12:28 PM | link to this | reply

I agree with the comment from Bel. 

posted by calia14 on October 31, 2010 at 10:07 AM | link to this | reply

SilverMoon7
Well heck, you owe her nothin' luv, not even a thought

posted by WileyJohn on October 30, 2010 at 8:24 PM | link to this | reply

From the best of my understanding

He was not with the girlfriend when the flirting occured.  I see no need for you to apologize to anyone.  What I would recommend is being wary of men who live 4000 miles away claiming they were always in love with you.  The internet is a strange place and people forget there are real human beings on the other end and in turn they often do and say things they would not normally do in real time.

posted by Bel_ on October 30, 2010 at 5:36 PM | link to this | reply

I think he should focus on now

posted by Azur on October 30, 2010 at 7:50 AM | link to this | reply

My point of view is that if you knew he had a girlfriend, then you
should have exercised your discretion until he brought a closure or a break from that relationship. But you are NOT RESPONSIBLE for the situation, and therefore there is no question of you apologising to Liz. And this is not because she may have been responsible for that situation either. It is simply not an issue betwen you and Liz.

posted by Straightforward on October 29, 2010 at 9:32 PM | link to this | reply

No Silver, you certainly don't owe Madam any apologies.

posted by lovelyladymonk on October 29, 2010 at 6:48 PM | link to this | reply

It can get complicated but I tend to agree that no apology is necessary! sam 

posted by sam444 on October 29, 2010 at 4:00 PM | link to this | reply