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The memories stay with you as well as your child so by default he or she is a victim as well
posted by
Thomas_Cornish
on October 9, 2010 at 7:24 AM
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This is an excellent post. I was a victim of abuse. Remember one thing first of all: You do NOT deserve this, you are a valuable person, you need to get you and your children, if there are any, away from such evil. This is an evil practice.
posted by
Justi
on October 2, 2010 at 9:28 PM
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having suffered mental abuse I can say that you become so
opressed that you forget that you don't have to accept this......people have at times taken many generations to realize this and bring change. There is certainly evil thriving today and it worries me so.
posted by
Kabu
on October 2, 2010 at 6:46 PM
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Abuse is so horrible. I feel intense sadness for anyone who has had to endure it.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on October 2, 2010 at 4:49 PM
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LEAVE
Leave now, get help, never ever EVER allow someone to put their hands on you or verbally assault you.
posted by
Bel_
on October 2, 2010 at 3:58 PM
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Straightforward
When men and women learn to continually bring abuse to the law, and take even their fear with them, then they will conquer interpersonal violence. Yes, men get abused as well, and from my own experience, I used the law to end the abuse, just as I did advise two females in my life to do the same.
posted by
WileyJohn
on October 2, 2010 at 10:40 AM
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Straight - I pray this violence certainly ends. Simply that. Action and reaction and as you suggest - teamwork is important when this occurs.
Elyse
posted by
elysianfields
on October 2, 2010 at 9:33 AM
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I simply left and never looked back, it was grand resolution for me! sam
posted by
sam444
on October 1, 2010 at 10:16 PM
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Thanks for visiting my Sci-Fi. I cannot find assault acceptable regardless, but do not always know the answer in how to stop it. I do feel it should come to an end in any situation, especially a marriage.
posted by
mariss9
on October 1, 2010 at 9:22 PM
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