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It was good to catch up with you! So sorry the divorce is going to be ugly! They are difficult enough without throwing grease on the fire so to speak! sam
posted by
sam444
on November 23, 2009 at 1:44 PM
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Hope you can stick on even if it be silently
posted by
Straightforward
on November 23, 2009 at 8:40 AM
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lindo
Glad to see you back, but please, please, lease, don't hit that delete button. You are too precious for us to lose. I am filled also with empathy after reading your post. Rest and be renewed. Things are going to look up, look up to brightness.
posted by
anib
on November 22, 2009 at 9:08 PM
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Oh, and the room is still there... I guess I could go visit it but someone else dreams in it now ... I hope whoever it is can feel the magic I felt when I lived within its walls... Be well Lindo
posted by
Sinome
on November 22, 2009 at 5:42 PM
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Hey Lindo :-)
though it is true that any relaitonship virtual or otherwise demands time and upkeeping, Blogit is special and different in that the essence of what our heart pours into it remains after we have turned off our computers reminding other's in here of us. That essence lingers about and most times, when we do come back , it feels like we were never gone. I don't know if you want the divorce or not but either way there is a stressful time for you ahead, Stay with us, leave yourself the option open to come in here and pour your heart out. Where else can you do that and know you won't be judged but just heard. Besides... we need you, we would miss you way too much :-( ... What ever you decide... I hope everything goes well. Take care of you xoxoxo
posted by
Sinome
on November 22, 2009 at 5:39 PM
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a divorce is always a stressful time
posted by
Lanetay
on November 22, 2009 at 5:03 PM
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I look forward to reading your decison.
posted by
FormerStudentIntern
on November 22, 2009 at 3:18 PM
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Lindo
I really hope you make time for Blogit now that I've just found you after you commented to me. C'mon stay with us 'cuz we all need the company luv
posted by
WileyJohn
on November 22, 2009 at 10:17 AM
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I hope that you keep your membership here so that now and then we can encourage you along the way.
posted by
TAPS.
on November 22, 2009 at 8:40 AM
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Lindo
I'm really glad to hear that things are coming together for you, even if there are many difficulties ahead, especially with the divorce.
I hope you'll also find time to further your beautiful art, and gain the recognition it deserves...
And thanks for popping in at 'Tidbits'. As you probably know, all that stuff is usually tongue-in-cheek...
posted by
Nautikos
on November 22, 2009 at 6:35 AM
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Thanks for your visit despite your exhaustion. Now that you have proper internet it will be easier to keep up with us and I can only say from my own experience, that in difficult times your blogit friends are life savers. So, stay.
posted by
vogue
on November 22, 2009 at 2:19 AM
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Dear Lindo I was so pleased to see you that you had popped in to visit us. First of all congratulations on your job success; getting that organised must have been a challenge. Secondly I hope you consider staying here, both because your posts are excellent and also because this place is wonderful when you need to share your worries with others. People here are very caring.
Divorces are rarely pleasant; I too speak from experience. My very sincere best wishes to you. Thanks for leaving your comment.
posted by
elinjo
on November 22, 2009 at 2:12 AM
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thank you for visiting my blog
since i have been through a divorce feel free to email me I will tell you my experience and maybe it will save you some money and headache. I wish you the best
posted by
Tzippy
on November 22, 2009 at 2:02 AM
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you remind me of my divorce from hell
if only i knew than what i know now. the divorce would not have been so bad. There are some fights just not worth fighting. I hope you are smarter than I was when I did my divorce.
posted by
Tzippy
on November 22, 2009 at 12:44 AM
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You are entering a period of testing of your health, mind and patience.
Add Blogit and it might just be too much. Dunno, sometimes we need a place to complain where people truly do not know us............Blogit would be that place. Or, to crow about a triumph, also.
I feel genuine friendships here and the friends can be helpful when I am confused or hazy.
Divorce is an exhausting, exasperating and painful thing. There is no 'good end' to it until perhaps ten years have passed and husbands have matured. If they do not, it may never get really better. I found that when they remarried and had new children, that I was finally given some peace.
Remember to rest, as that will be the key to your survival. Exhausted women make errors in judgement and you don't want to do that.
You are strong, amazingly strong and I am sure that all will be well eventually, but things can periodically get ugly. So, prayers for patience and love and understanding might be in your future. I know that I will have you in mine...........
posted by
benzinha
on November 21, 2009 at 5:02 PM
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