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TAPS~Bless your lovin' heart my friend. I prayed for all my Blogit friends and I didn't have one ugly thought about telling anybody what I thought about anything. I contributed to the building fund, and never said a bad word about the lack of common sense of the Parish spending $750,000.00 on 'improvements'. Your thinking about me was sending me a 'be quiet' thought which is so much the sensible nursing you. Now I'se married one too.LOL
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I celebrated mass today in a catholic church (not my usual habit and not my usual church) and quite often during the service I thought about you.
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sam444~Thank you luv and yes the Lord takes care of us all
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OTA~Thank you our lovin' OTA and yes family's can be difficult at times.
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FormerStudentIntern~Thank you, and we don't have a lot of years left to us to remain unsociable.......
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Re: Your Helen understands. She's been through pain herself
Pat_B~Thank you PatB and I'm happy we are working at friendship again too
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Nautikos~Thank you my friend, I agree that peace in the family is best

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Troosha~Thank you my friend, and yes acceptance is what it's all about all the time luv
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elinjo~Thank you luv and I'm just content that I spoke with her so am without conflict within. Blessings luv
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shobana~Thank you luv, and she does know about Kabu, just hasn't met her


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Re: what is kabu to you
Tzippy~Kabu is my wife now since March 26/09, she came to Canada from Australia 2 years ago and now we are woman and husband and yes, we met in Blogit. Now you get healthy and love will find you, we love ya. Wiley & Kabu


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November 8, 2009
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Very nice resolution! I believe the Lord will care for Kabu! sam
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Justi ~Thank you luv and God Bless you both with much love from us.

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Re: You know that I am praying for both of your sisters, mine too
Kabuiepie-;)~I'll never drop you off near a shop to go and see somebody else like a relative or whatever. Now go wash your mouth out with soap, Jean says so.
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hardilaziz~Thank you very much my friend and love ya too
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Re: Omygosh, your two previous post commentaries are heavenly sweet and so
benzinha~Thank you very much my lovin' friend, prayers appreciated


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Family relationships can be so sticky. Hang in there friend. ~OTA
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I'm glad to see that even after all the rough patches you two have been able to maintain contact.
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Sinome~Thank you luv, and thank you for your prayers luv


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Re: Powerful prayer --- the One and only actually and
elysianfields~Thank you ery much my friend and God Bless you and love fom us
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Your Helen understands. She's been through pain herself
and maybe one day your sis will meet her. That's when the joy of knowing the new Helen will erase some of the pain from loss of her child. I'm glad you and your sis are making up and being friends again.
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Wiley
Yes, she clearly had a tough life, and things don't seem to get any better! And it's always best to make peace with one's family...
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Sounds like she has had a difficult life – and now the mastectomies! Sometimes it takes a current tragedy to heal past grudges. And the fact that she chose not to meet Kabu is a completely separate issue, Wiley. Set is aside if you can… because sometimes people just feel “uncomfortable” and we have to accept it.
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I'm sorry to hear that your sister is so ill. So sad that it takes something like that for her to drop her pose and talk you properly again. Here's wishing you all the best.
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Wiley John - I am so happy you had a wonderful chat with your sister and don't worry in time God will make sure she finds out about your miracle that is Kabu.

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what is kabu to you
is that our kabu from blogit? is she your daughter? I am a bit confused.
I am amazed and thankful that you took the time to read my ENTIRE blog :) that is the biggest compliment anyone can give me.
I know you will be fine and I shall focus my prayers for you on sunday
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Dear Man, it is going to be alright. Your dear Helen is a woman with total compassion she knows why and how your sister came to this conclusion. Forgive her as you did and The Lord will do all the rest. Bless you and your dear and sweet wife and your sister. I shall pray for her in this terrible time now. God bless you dear we love you.
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You know that I am praying for both of your sisters, mine too
actually. I had two Aunties who behaved very badly when they got older and I nursed lots of difficult older people. I really do understand your sisters problem with me, no with my name. Sinome is right. I really am not worried and if we go to see her, just drop me off near a shop. lol
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November 7, 2009
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It feels nice to know that you and your sister are back on talking terms. Great gesture from your side. Love ya'.
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Omygosh, your two previous post commentaries are heavenly sweet and so
right on. They have said it all. And, knowing Kabu, all will be well either way, as she knows that we are not in charge of our family's reactions.
I hope that your sister does well, the surgery is very difficult to endure. I am praying for her quick recovery.
Praying for you all, Kabu's family and yours and you two especially.
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Dear Wiley... I am sorry for all these hurt you and your sister have endured... and I am ever so glad you made up , specially in light of her upcomming surgery. You did the right thing forgiving her traspasses but don't worry about your Helen... Kabu has such a big heart that I am sure she has looked passed your sister's hurtful actions and seen the true pain behind her meanness long ago. I would be willing to bet she has forgiven her as well. I understand how it must have hurt you for your big sister not to want to meet Kabu... but that is her problem, and her loss... You have done the right thing with that phone call. I pray everything goes well with the surgery and you guys can get back to being family. xoxoxo
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Powerful prayer --- the One and only actually and
I must say first I am sorry for all the suffering, the long-suffering of your sister. You are a dear brother to reach out as you have. I, as a sister, know how important it is for my brothers to extend their brotherly (familiar) shoulders.

Finally, I am very sorry that she has not met Kabu yet. The pain may be that she is afraid of 'loss' again...she's withdrawn and now, with illness as such, she probably is focused on the what if's and when...etc. However, I just know that when (because it will happen) she meets Kabu, she will have a very difficult time - not wanting to grab and squeeze her. ~ You know the saying is: We can choose our friends, but we cannot choose family. You show an incredible amount of Grace by the unconditional Love you give. God bless you and Kabu (Mr. Graysome too) and your Sister ~ Love y'all ~ Elyse xoxox

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