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Re: Hmmm
Well dating is mostly BS... as you said.. and it is filled with deception and lots of time spent trying to cut through layers of the person to get to the truth or core.... only to find out we dont get along... (hate to sound so jaded). So... we cling to the past loves even though they are long over because at least then we HAD some form of love that felt pretty good. But the problem is that clinging to the past is not good because it holds us back from feeling the pain or facing the harsh truth that we really are alone... we need to like ourselves quite a bit to be alone and not feel miserable or lonely... tell me your thoughts ok?

posted by willprt on October 12, 2009 at 10:19 AM | link to this | reply

Re: I lives alone for years in a lovelessand abusive relationship.
Just curious... how long have you been happily remarried?  Many marriages start off great (in fact most do) but as we know they change and get bad often later....

posted by willprt on October 12, 2009 at 10:14 AM | link to this | reply

Hmmm
that might be my problem since in truth I find I am more in a hurry these days to rush to either my note pad or computer and write over dating. Or maybe I just don't have the energy to endure the b.s.

posted by kdstorm73 on October 12, 2009 at 7:37 AM | link to this | reply

I lives alone for years in a lovelessand abusive relationship.
Surrounded by people but alone I thought it was my life. How wrong I was how happy I am since I married again.

posted by Kabu on October 11, 2009 at 8:32 PM | link to this | reply

I am scared to be alone, but I am very comfortable being alone ........
sometimes we find a whole lot of things and get going so busy......time is flying fast...it's hard to believe ......so I can understand why people left alone or like to be alone.....I can meet anybody out there if I want to.....I have too many friends and opportunities to be out there....But I like to stuck in my own world.....and think from my own space...so there are many people like me......BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY I AM STUCK WITH THAT IBF......HAHAHA.....

posted by Star5_ on October 11, 2009 at 7:42 AM | link to this | reply