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Sex isn't always the objective.
Sometimes girls and guys find that they have a lot in common but aren't physically attracted to each other. It just depends on the person. It makes one wonder if your "online" guy is one of those who would pose as a friend in order to get sex and is assuming that every guy is that way. Even someone as jaded as me know this isn't always the case.

posted by kdstorm73 on September 18, 2009 at 1:18 AM | link to this | reply

I agree with the first three commenters.

posted by ash_pradhan on September 16, 2009 at 9:21 PM | link to this | reply

 In 1990 a girl told me that you should be careful not to become friends with the person that you like love. BC-A, Bill’s RJJst

posted by BC-A on September 16, 2009 at 7:58 PM | link to this | reply

Boys and Girls can be great friends without sex on their minds. I have a guy friend who is my best friend, confidante, always there in times of need and a great musician. And I also have a girl friend who's been a best friend to me for 35 years soo..it all depends on what you are looking for in a guy..I guess.

posted by shobana on September 16, 2009 at 7:17 PM | link to this | reply

Well, I am a man and I would say that it might be true for some men and in some cases, but it definitely ain't true in the UNIVERSAL sense - definitely not! And what you said is right - in some cases sex might be on the agenda but then after a while it is not any more. While in some cases it can be the other way round or sex might not be there in the first place at all. 

posted by Aspire2Inspire on September 16, 2009 at 6:59 PM | link to this | reply

I mean stinks......yaaaaaaaak

posted by Star5_ on September 16, 2009 at 6:52 PM | link to this | reply

it is not true........because you don't feel such soft corner to everyone,
sometimes some people are very selective.........if you could feel sex to every man in the world....yuk.......that stings......

posted by Star5_ on September 16, 2009 at 6:51 PM | link to this | reply