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I think I go very much with the 'dangerous' way.....

posted by Straightforward on September 22, 2011 at 7:20 PM | link to this | reply

Beautiful and wise, Azur..
I've read several of these - very mesmerizing work.

posted by Katray2 on February 24, 2010 at 5:34 AM | link to this | reply

Hi Azur, just caught up with this...very interesting read. Thanks so much for your visit and comment.

posted by shobana on February 23, 2010 at 6:49 PM | link to this | reply

Re:
aaaw TAPS.. but who could tell... that mightn't have worked either.  I like the way you share so much of yourself with us, now.  Myself, I wish HB could have just accepted me and not read so much into every little utterance or gesture.  It made me nervous I suppose - not used to such scrutiny.  I wish my ex (H) had kept a lid on his own 'letting it all hang out' instead of letting fly. I wish he could have been more sensitive too.  We are who we are .. not our fault if our loved ones don't like the changes that inevitably show up as we go through life .. then again.. their changes don't always sit well with us, do they. - darn that 'two sides to everything' idea... so confusing!  

posted by mneme on September 24, 2009 at 11:00 PM | link to this | reply

My best stories contain my deepest humiliations turned to humor,
but the pain stays and the lessons learned remain, written with big permanent ink markers on some walls inside my head and heart and soul.

posted by benzinha on September 6, 2009 at 2:39 PM | link to this | reply

I visualized the letter ending with three blank pages, thanks.

posted by benzinha on September 6, 2009 at 2:37 PM | link to this | reply

Looking back (a long ways), I wish I could have learned to "let it all hang out" with my ex- before it was too late to salvage my relationship with him.

posted by TAPS. on August 31, 2009 at 11:31 AM | link to this | reply

Very interesting observation...

posted by Greenfields on August 28, 2009 at 8:22 PM | link to this | reply

Thought-provoking!

posted by hardilaziz on August 27, 2009 at 8:57 AM | link to this | reply

DEAR ONE IT IS GREAT TOREAD YOU AGAIN. YOU KNOW I LOVE THIS BLOG.

posted by Kabu on August 26, 2009 at 9:25 PM | link to this | reply

Azur
Just came back from an excursion of my own, and am glad you have returned as well...

posted by Nautikos on August 26, 2009 at 5:33 AM | link to this | reply

Azur! Great to read you again.
I've been thinking you must be going through a very productive rush. I hope that's true.

posted by Pat_B on August 26, 2009 at 5:21 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Thank you dear Sam for the sign. It's been a very down and up time
And now there is a light. Have a wonderful time in Seattle. much to catch on. I will try to blog something of it but where to start....

posted by Azur on August 25, 2009 at 10:36 PM | link to this | reply

WOW! These get better and better! I must start a new sign! I am off to Seattle, Washington for a baseball game and Jimi Hendrix museum, but I will write to you when I return! How are you????? sam

posted by sam444 on August 25, 2009 at 6:06 PM | link to this | reply