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That's not fair!

You tip-toed all around the story but didn't tell what kind of ummm privacy invasion you were having!!!!  Did it happen at Blogit or online. . , Did it happen at work???  A little more story please.

posted by Joe_Love on May 16, 2009 at 8:50 PM | link to this | reply

you'll get over it - and after that, trust yourself first. and know when not to .  trusting (or not) another, will stop being too big an issue. now smile

posted by bythewindowsill on May 16, 2009 at 6:38 AM | link to this | reply

I'm with mysteria. It's asolutely terrible if a trust is broken and I'm so sorry for you, but she is right, be super nice to yourself. Says your co-taurean, whose birthday is on the 18th.

posted by vogue on May 15, 2009 at 1:56 PM | link to this | reply

wow what is it they want to know, no one cares about me and my private life to investigate me

posted by lustorlove on May 14, 2009 at 8:31 PM | link to this | reply

shelly b

"In God I have put my trust:I will not be afraid what man can do unto me. Psalms.LVI.11" Then trust yourself and be happy luv.

posted by WileyJohn on May 14, 2009 at 7:48 PM | link to this | reply

Because trust is something that comes with time, it is terribly difficult to gain it back once broken. I hope that you'll be alright.

posted by auslander on May 14, 2009 at 6:24 PM | link to this | reply

I am sorry that you were betrayed.

I know a lot on that painful subject.  Be nice to yourself...extra nice

posted by mysteria on May 14, 2009 at 5:56 PM | link to this | reply

I am sorry this happened to you... here is hoping things get better :-) 

posted by Sinome on May 14, 2009 at 5:24 PM | link to this | reply

Hope things settle down.

posted by FormerStudentIntern on May 14, 2009 at 4:43 PM | link to this | reply

Ouch.. that is a sticky one.

posted by OTA. on May 14, 2009 at 11:59 AM | link to this | reply

Well, you're right.  Once trust has been broken, it's not an easy thing to give back.  I find that if I don't talk to the person again, I keep the feelings of irritation and the known knowledge that I will never EVER trust that person again. However, if we somehow make some sort of ammends - just talking at least - then I'm a little more forgiving.  I might not be as trusting, but the hate and hurt in me go away. I don't like feeling the hate and hurt, so no matter how much I don't like a person, I try to at least talk it out. 

posted by NiteTide on May 14, 2009 at 11:23 AM | link to this | reply