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There are organizations that hold pets while a person in a shelter gets
life back together. It can be done, it takes a Xena courage and remembering of deserving all the better things. Ending self saboutage is most difficult, it was my path, eternally until I was 40 something. Grateful to have embraced myself and put myself, selfishly first for the first time, life is finally good.

posted by benzinha on March 8, 2009 at 10:05 AM | link to this | reply

Re: Happiness. I don't believe it is rationed. - Azur
I hear what you are saying, and I see it in my life, too.  I think I just didn't realize until lately how much my past actually effects me (is it affect or effect, I always get those wrong).  I thought I had decided to forget the past, move on, and do what I wanted in spite of reaction from others.  I guess not.  Now, the anchor.  I'm not sure how to deal with it, but at least I know it's there ... it's time, I have realized, to figure out what I REALLY want and who I am.  I guess there are many times when we re-evaluated and this is one.  Nice to see you. :)  Did you know Benzinha has a step-son by the name "Azur?"  Cool

posted by Temple on March 1, 2009 at 6:07 AM | link to this | reply

Re: sam444
I realize that rationally, in my head, but putting it to practice is another story.  It effects me still, but I'm working on it. Thanks for the encouragement. :)

posted by Temple on March 1, 2009 at 5:58 AM | link to this | reply

Happiness. I don't believe it is rationed.
I think we must let ourselves be. Acknowledge how something makes us feel in that moment, and let it pass.

Some of the most successful people i know did not have support but for one reason or another decided that they can be

 

what they want to be. I think the anchor remains for as long as we let it. All I know is that when I become too attached to something or

more particularly someone i must decide how long til I drop it these feelings of attachment. And just be me. Herein are no answers, just thoughts that your words sparked.

posted by Azur on February 28, 2009 at 7:25 PM | link to this | reply

Actually, the past is just a good-bye! It is the past and thus over! Move forward to your kismet, do not be denied! sam

posted by sam444 on February 25, 2009 at 2:59 AM | link to this | reply

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