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I was thinking this would be a nightmare! WOW!~ sam

posted by sam444 on February 21, 2009 at 11:43 AM | link to this | reply

I feel like a little kid when Mum used to read to us More please please ple

posted by Kabu on February 20, 2009 at 8:38 PM | link to this | reply

I am so glad you are writing this. It is awesome.

posted by Justi on February 20, 2009 at 7:18 PM | link to this | reply

anxious for more...xxoo

posted by hazel_st_cricket on February 20, 2009 at 1:01 PM | link to this | reply

HAHAHA, Nautikos--"The Horror, The Horror!"  LOL

posted by TAPS. on February 20, 2009 at 12:45 PM | link to this | reply

TAPS
Oh boy, I know what's comin'...Why am I reminded of Heart of Darkness? 'The horror, the horror'...

posted by Nautikos on February 20, 2009 at 11:54 AM | link to this | reply

I am following along TAPS. Your first post prompted me to look up some information on people who hoard. Oh my goodness.. it is just amazing. I saw a clip from an Oprah show where she tried to help a woman who "hoarded".

I look forward to the rest of this story.

posted by OTA. on February 20, 2009 at 10:42 AM | link to this | reply

Taps
Engaging story (and, of course, you tell it so well). 

posted by Troosha on February 20, 2009 at 9:38 AM | link to this | reply

The suspense is building up very nicely; I look forward to the next installment.

posted by elinjo on February 20, 2009 at 7:52 AM | link to this | reply

posted by TAPS. on August 23, 2009 at 8:03 PM | link to this | reply

Oh my! A lifetime of newspapers is all I can see right now! sam

posted by sam444 on February 24, 2009 at 12:30 AM | link to this | reply

I thought so what on earth did you do?

posted by Kabu on February 22, 2009 at 9:28 PM | link to this | reply

Oh, what a job! No wonder she moved from one flat to another in that house. I wait impatiently for the next installment.

posted by elinjo on February 22, 2009 at 2:38 AM | link to this | reply

oh my.. here we go..

posted by OTA. on February 21, 2009 at 8:13 PM | link to this | reply

TAPS
What sad and interesting story, and as always, so very well told...

posted by Nautikos on February 21, 2009 at 7:39 PM | link to this | reply

posted by TAPS. on August 23, 2009 at 8:02 PM | link to this | reply

 
It is amazing what some people never learn.
Life is for Learning!

posted by _Decshak on August 8, 2009 at 5:44 PM | link to this | reply

only child
I am an only child. Mother was an only child, Father was 14 when only other sibling born. Thank goodness my Mother was a clean freak and a  task master. I still feel the need to clean something after this though. :)

I love the tone of the story and the transitions. You showed her dignity and worth in the midst of it all. Exceptional.


posted by texture on May 9, 2009 at 2:38 PM | link to this | reply

What a sad epitaph to leave mounds of papers and garbage. This is a sad story but very plausible. Leaves me thinking and shaking my head!

posted by merkie on March 10, 2009 at 7:43 PM | link to this | reply

That was such a courageous thing you did. It was a gift to God.

posted by Justi on March 7, 2009 at 3:36 AM | link to this | reply

I live next door to a bunch of people like that
BUT they are on drugs and their yard both front and back has to be seen to  be believed. Yes there are people like that and she must have been awfully depressed. Poor old thing.

posted by Norwood on February 26, 2009 at 5:30 PM | link to this | reply

Re: What a timely story in my reality...
FYS, I think there must be a lot of people like that.  But it is a shock to find out it is someone we know.  Thanks for commenting.

posted by TAPS. on February 25, 2009 at 2:27 PM | link to this | reply

What a timely story in my reality...

A neighbor two nights ago set his kitchen on fire.  It took three crews six hours to put the fire out and to inspect the rest of the house.  They would break a window to get in, but virtual mountains of junk kept them out.

It took three crews six hours to get through the whole house.  Today the house is boarded up per city code.  He is living with family now.

posted by FineYoungSinger on February 25, 2009 at 12:38 PM | link to this | reply

Taps

What a remarkable story – sad but a reminder that we don’t really know what goes on behind closed doors.  Poor Bea and what an undertaking it must have been for you to clear away the many, many remnants of her life.  

posted by Troosha on February 24, 2009 at 8:58 AM | link to this | reply

My goodness, to be functional yet so utterly helpless! Wow! sam

posted by sam444 on February 24, 2009 at 12:34 AM | link to this | reply

It has to be a sickness. I know of a couple of terrible stories in Sydney
similiar. How lucky she was to die with some decencey thanks to you. She could have been dead there for months just like her poor tenant. She did know everything was wrong on one level because She wouldn't let anyone see how she lived. You're a saint to see it through.

posted by Kabu on February 23, 2009 at 7:18 PM | link to this | reply

Nautikos, I've often wondered that myself in retrospect.  I've wondered many things.  It wouldn't surprise me if she checked in once a week for a Saturday-night bath at a motel on her walking route.  She wasn't the most fastidious person ever, but she certainly was acceptable.

posted by TAPS. on February 23, 2009 at 6:30 AM | link to this | reply

TAPS
What a terribly sad story, but also intriguing. One would want to delve into her mind...There must have been more to it than not having 'learned' to keep house...One of the most immediate questions would be this one: apparently she was always well-dressed, clean and not 'malodorous' when she appeared in public - how the hell did she mange that?

posted by Nautikos on February 23, 2009 at 4:37 AM | link to this | reply

What an absolutely amazing story........
Have you published this anywhere........it's a guaranteed sale......reader's digest would hop on it......my, oh ,my....
Thank you so much for sharing this series with us!  

posted by Corbin_Dallas on February 23, 2009 at 3:52 AM | link to this | reply

How terrible and sad...
She must have been a person who lived different lives, was a different person when she was out of her house, but utterly trapped when she was inside it, with her hoarding disease and loneliness.

posted by Ciel on February 23, 2009 at 2:39 AM | link to this | reply

What a sad waste of a life! How many seemingly merely eccentric people have similar fates? Thank you Taps, for giving us a chance to read about your friend. One good thing in her last years seems to have been her friendship with you.

posted by elinjo on February 22, 2009 at 11:17 PM | link to this | reply

Just keep your newspapers picked up, OTA.  LOL

posted by TAPS. on February 22, 2009 at 10:57 PM | link to this | reply

Wow.. TAPS.  Such a life.. I am amazed at this. Thank you for telling us about this. I dont know what to say..

posted by OTA. on February 22, 2009 at 10:50 PM | link to this | reply

posted by TAPS. on August 23, 2009 at 7:58 PM | link to this | reply

TAPS
Fascinating! And I'll be back...

posted by Nautikos on February 19, 2009 at 2:06 PM | link to this | reply

Sounds as though it's going to be a fascinating story.

posted by elinjo on February 19, 2009 at 11:31 AM | link to this | reply

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