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Hey there... how are you???

posted by mneme on May 29, 2009 at 3:07 AM | link to this | reply

My heart goes out to you
I'm sorry for your loss.

posted by calia14 on January 25, 2009 at 10:56 PM | link to this | reply

I am so so sorry.  I can not even begin to imagine what you are going through.

posted by RASSE on January 16, 2009 at 4:48 PM | link to this | reply

These heartfelt outcries of yours make me want to weep for you and the little one. Cling to those God has left you.

posted by vogue on January 16, 2009 at 3:59 PM | link to this | reply

I'm very sorry for your loss.
I have a three month old son and I worry constantly about the what-if's. The fact is though, it's out of our hands. It sounds as if you loved your son very much and showed him. You can take at least a little comfort in that.

posted by Fledgeling_Phoenix on January 16, 2009 at 2:58 PM | link to this | reply

I felt this way after my father (=best friend =my rock =my daily phone call) was killed by an unlicensed tow-truck driver back in 2005, on a Friday evening while I was on the train on the way to a weekend with my boyfriend.  I put off returning Dad's call from night before and had guilt about that for ages and ages - tons of "what-ifs" to torture myself with.  I had actually deleted the message since I was a little annoyed at him at that time. 

He eventually showed up in a couple of my dreams later on after the funeral.  In one of the dreams he called me to say it was all a mistake and I was being silly crying all the time.  I woke up with my phone in the bed next to me.  It was so real, it was like I got what I wished for. 

Not sure what your beliefs are, but it seems that this is just a different way of "being" - some people we love are not physically with us, but are all around us - in songs we hear, or visions we have, or dreams we wish for.  I believe this - even though this is not as comforting as his actual company. 

If your other kids are young enough, they will tell you things.  Try to listen to them, even though you miss your little one.  Honor the one you lost by loving the ones still with you.  This might sound trite and cliche but there is a reason for everything.  Talk to someone.  Hug your kids and let them hug you.  I wish you strength.

posted by JDM1991 on January 16, 2009 at 7:11 AM | link to this | reply

how totally sad this is so sorry for your lost

posted by Lanetay on January 15, 2009 at 10:40 PM | link to this | reply

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