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Oh Ariala, this is worse than I thought

But you loved him enough to marry him, right?  It wasn't just because you wanted to be married, I hope?  I only ask because I so wanted to be married when I was single.  It's probably not right for me to encourage you to discuss this here, so if you want to explain any more to me, my email is open day and night.

posted by Inkling on November 15, 2003 at 2:19 PM | link to this | reply

Inkling, yes, I am telling you that...but don't worry about me...I

don't plan to do anything stupid.  Believe me, I've already done everything stupid you could think of!

posted by Ariala on November 15, 2003 at 2:06 PM | link to this | reply

Ariala, are you telling me that you weren't physically attracted to him

and still aren't?

posted by Inkling on November 15, 2003 at 2:04 PM | link to this | reply

Inkling, people marry for many stupid reasons, which ones shall I list?

posted by Ariala on November 15, 2003 at 1:30 PM | link to this | reply

Ariala, I wish you were here

I would write a special something for your in my "Dear Inkling" column.  Btw, who's sounding melancholic now?  There's got to be a way to ignite the passion between you and hubby.  I know you love him and you wouldn't have married him if he wasn't attractive to you, would you have?

posted by Inkling on November 15, 2003 at 11:50 AM | link to this | reply

Notapoet, you're right...I know this and rarely allow myself the luxury

of depression.  Thanks again!

posted by Ariala on November 14, 2003 at 9:11 PM | link to this | reply

Dreamgirl, Ariala...

Just don't get to down on yourself.  I've been there and done that -- it's counterproductive.  Got to go for a while but I'll be in and out of BN over the next couple of hours if you need someone to talk to -- or laugh at.

posted by notapoet on November 14, 2003 at 9:10 PM | link to this | reply

Notapoet, you are sweet...I hope to one day be a real dreamgirl, for

now I am just a bum

posted by Ariala on November 14, 2003 at 9:03 PM | link to this | reply

Dreamgirl, Ariala...

You're still my Dreamgirl.  Everyone has problems to deal with at times.  Rest and good friends help us through everything and help us to be stronger -- and better.

posted by notapoet on November 14, 2003 at 8:58 PM | link to this | reply

Notapoet, some dreamgirl I turned out to be, huh...

posted by Ariala on November 14, 2003 at 8:37 PM | link to this | reply

Thank you, Notapoet...I think a good night's sleep might solve half my

problems.  I appreciate your friendship a lot!

posted by Ariala on November 14, 2003 at 8:35 PM | link to this | reply

Dreamgirl, Ariala...

I'm not really qualified to give advice here -- my other Dreamgirl left me -- all I can say is talk it out with whoever you need to and, if he's the one, try to bend a little toward each other.  I do agree with JB that outside of you two, no one else matters.  I guess the point is  -- we care and are here for you if you need us.

posted by notapoet on November 14, 2003 at 8:33 PM | link to this | reply

Edit, that is the exact logic my cats tell me in not so many words!

posted by Ariala on November 14, 2003 at 8:30 PM | link to this | reply

Hey, I am confused...

and maybe the cat is too. If it's a "throw rug," why not throw up on it? Hurling is throwing, isn't it?

posted by editormum on November 14, 2003 at 8:29 PM | link to this | reply

Joes, he's for me, I'm just not sure where my loyalities lie...guess I'm

the 'bastard'

posted by Ariala on November 14, 2003 at 8:22 PM | link to this | reply

BUCK UP!!!

The only person you should be concerned with is your Husband and vice versa....Who gives a shit what family outside of your home is doing?? When it all comes down to it...its you and your husband against the world and if he aint with you hes against you....JB

posted by Joe-Bastard on November 14, 2003 at 8:20 PM | link to this | reply