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I guess that type of pain is most hard to deal with - it is affecting several levels at once. Best wishes on releasing your pain with Love

posted by Smittenheimer on October 28, 2008 at 11:27 AM | link to this | reply

I can feel the writer's pain in this poem

posted by Samantha39 on October 23, 2008 at 7:49 PM | link to this | reply

I think we learn to live with. Our own egress is the most difficult part! Forgiveness is good to right the soul in my humble opinion! sam

posted by sam444 on October 21, 2008 at 9:07 PM | link to this | reply

Lotus_Flower, I'm not sure you can..at least not without feeling like

"he did it once, how can I be sure he will never do it again" ....

posted by Rumor on October 21, 2008 at 5:27 PM | link to this | reply

posted by 9STAR on October 21, 2008 at 12:11 PM | link to this | reply

And also can't forget ...

posted by afzal50 on October 21, 2008 at 4:07 AM | link to this | reply

Yesterday a little girl asked me with tears in her eyes...........

"why can't grown ups forgive?" perhaps we have a lot to learn from our children; many blessings and thanks for sharing

posted by mariaki on October 21, 2008 at 4:04 AM | link to this | reply

Foegiveness is not easy... and it comes when it comes... Just try to keep busy and it will come to you when you are ready.

posted by Sinome on October 20, 2008 at 10:24 PM | link to this | reply

Forgiveness is a choice...the feelings may take a while to heal, though...

Take care of yourself now...feed your heart and soul and move on when you're ready.

posted by Ariala on October 20, 2008 at 4:51 PM | link to this | reply

FORGIVENESS

THERE IS A SONG BY A GROUP CALLED POET VOICES THAT SAYS IT VERY WELL. 

THE BURDENS THAT WE BEAR

ALL HEAVY ROCKS

IF WE DO NOT LAY THEM DOWN

WHEN WE WILL NOT CARRY

THESE STUMBLING BLOCKS

BECOME STEPPING STONES TO HIGHER GROUND

THEY ARE STEPPING STONES TO HIGHER GROUND

     THE BIBLE SAYS: EPH 4: 32 AND BE KIND ONE TO ANOTHER, TENDERHEARTED, FORGIVING ONE ANOTHER, EVEN AS GOD FOR CHRIST'S SAKE HATH FORGIVEN YOU.

     LUKE 6: 37  JUDGE NOT, AND YE SHALL NOT BE JUDGED: CONDEMN NOT, AND YE SHALL NOT BE CONDEMNED: FORGIVE, AND YE SHALL BE FORGIVEN.

     MATT. 614 FOR IF WE FORGIVE MEN THEIR TRESPASSES, YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER WILL ALSO FORGIVE YOU.

 

    SO WHETHER YOU CONTINUE IN RELATIONSHIP OR NOT YOU MUST FORGIVE, FOR YOUR OWN GOOD, I AM NOT SAYING IT IS EASY, YOU MUST PRAY AND READ GOD'S WORD AND ASK GOD TO HELP YOU.  MY SPIRIT HAS DRAWN ME TO YOUR PLIGHT, I HOPE YOU DON'T MIND BUT I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU, THAT GOD WILL GIVE YOU PEACE AND A FORGIVING HEART.  IF I CAN HELP IN ANY WAY JUST LET ME KNOW, MY BEST FOR YOU , KENT

posted by Riversidepoet on October 20, 2008 at 3:29 PM | link to this | reply

I know it too well

with a switch of gender, of course.

Carl Peter

posted by cpklapper on October 20, 2008 at 3:12 PM | link to this | reply

Forgiving and ...

... continue the life path is one thing ... another thing is to remember for to learn; otherwise we wouldn't grow -  - genio

 

posted by ggXpress on October 20, 2008 at 1:53 PM | link to this | reply

I suppose letting go of him is preferrable to letting go of the pain.. or maybe he IS the pain.... ~ take care

posted by OTA. on October 20, 2008 at 1:20 PM | link to this | reply