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I enjoyed reading this post. My first husband and I remained able to talk.

Well I think sharing kids and grandchildren helped but if I ever see No again it will only be with my lawyer in a court room.

posted by Kabu on August 18, 2008 at 8:15 AM | link to this | reply

Ex_turpi, yes, and I believe all experiences seek to teach us valuable life

lessons, perhaps shaping us into better human beings.

posted by Ariala on August 18, 2008 at 7:54 AM | link to this | reply

Hi Ariala, we a human; we are social beings;those things happen to most of us. We struggle to forgive. I do not know that we ever forget. Yet such experiences are some of the best in our lives. They are the pebbles that help us negotiate life's minefields.

posted by EX_TURPI on August 18, 2008 at 7:47 AM | link to this | reply

Sam, glad the haunting isn't as bad now!

posted by Ariala on August 18, 2008 at 7:18 AM | link to this | reply

Winged...thanks for the info...as soon as I get more time, I could prob

write a review!

posted by Ariala on August 18, 2008 at 7:18 AM | link to this | reply

yes, I did have a person who haunted me and guess what
he is dead now, and he haunts me less,, and no , I didn't
kill him or anything it was cancer,, but after his death, I thought
and worried about him less.

posted by Samantha39 on August 18, 2008 at 7:04 AM | link to this | reply

Ariala, my book is out now. A lot of

book stores are asking for reviews

for $100.00. If your interested, let

me know. Look up my last entry

go to Sculpting the Heart. Thanks

Winged.

posted by Winged on August 18, 2008 at 6:12 AM | link to this | reply

Corbin, you know what? I truly WAS a tease...I thought it safe to "date"

friends, play with them emotionally and then walk away, but that made a lot of guys mad.  Wonder why? LOL  This guy might actually be a decent guy (now) and even then, but I brought out the worst in him and he in me. He needed control and a submissive girl...that wasn't me.  He was right about me and guys, but gee, I wasn't ready to get serious, at least not with a guy like that!

And yes, it was very special for him to get married on my birthday...someone get the man a straight jacket.

posted by Ariala on August 18, 2008 at 5:36 AM | link to this | reply

You're such a tease...........

Don't ya think it's kind of special that he got married on your birthday???   In a psycho sort of way???

posted by Corbin_Dallas on August 18, 2008 at 5:34 AM | link to this | reply

Leon, some people don't respect how you feel. They only think of themselves

Sounds like you experienced that yourself.  This guy was a classic. He got on the good side of all my friends and even my parents. No one understood why I didn't like him and broke it off.  He spent over $100 on a wedding gift for one of my friends he hardly knew, trying to get on her good side.  He'd buy gift for my parents and was quite charming and a gentleman, but I knew the real person and he was dangerous.

posted by Ariala on August 18, 2008 at 4:52 AM | link to this | reply

The guy sounds like a big jerk!!!

anyone who disrespects and abuses someone should immediately go see a shrink. i am glad you saw the danger ahead of time.  I remember once, someone was intersted in marrying me and kept stalking me day and night. I had some friends talk to her and the harassing almost immediately stopped. But until this day I still feel uncomfortable when I see this person around.

posted by LeonsBlogs on August 18, 2008 at 4:47 AM | link to this | reply