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RSM, I think that was suppose to be a compliment
I don't view myself as a 'sinner', but I know I can better myself no matter what.  I have no need for church or a belief in God to understand this.  I am a very forgiving person.  I've been through a lot myself and I have had my family and friend there to help me pull it together and come out the other end stronger.  I have yet to suffer in the manner you have due to what happened to your daughter and hope that I never do, so I will not try to claim I know where you are coming from.
 
Outside of that I have yet to see the need for vengeance to ever be helpful.  You can't linger on past event and have actual inner peace.
 
I really think you might benefit from learning about my personal experience being molested as a real young child.  It happened when I was about three and I have too good of a memory to not know what took place.  Interestingly enough another young man who was molested at the same time by the same person contacted me last year. He was looking for answers and it was interesting to get a different point of view about what happened and to see how it affected him.  I'll have to write a post on all this.  I'll talk about how you can remember events like that without having them consume you.

posted by kooka_lives on July 1, 2008 at 8:47 PM | link to this | reply

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Thank you Sam! I always enjoy your solid thoughts on issues. You are an oak! Your belief in God shows through in every one of your thoughts. You are truly a child of God! Thanks for stopping by to read my rants! Sorry for my emotion, it gets out of hand often!

posted by RedStatesMan on July 1, 2008 at 7:47 PM | link to this | reply

Re: RSM, I could almost agree with you on some of this
"What I find most interesting here is that you openly show your true mindset here, and it seems to be a very non-Christian one.  You straight out hate the sinner and don't care at all about the sin.  You believe fully in vengeance above all else and wish to spit on justice and the how idea of forgiveness."
 
Thank you for correctly explaining why I attend church! I attend church because I want to become a better Christian. It is not enough to just believe in God and Jesus Christ as my savior. I am a sinner which is exactly why I am a member of a church and attend church. My family, myself and our daughter the most have endured some tough times, life shattering times and trust me when a family member gets hurt at the hands of others, the most difficult thing to do in the world is to forgive but that is what my Lord and Savior has taught that we all should do. I am trying but it is difficult, although I have come a long ways because of God. So yes, you are correct! You missed your calling kooka! You were meant to be Christian!

posted by RedStatesMan on July 1, 2008 at 7:43 PM | link to this | reply

I can tell you that it is impossible to get over rape, you just learn to live with it. Try to keep it from attacking from behind. If you haven't been raped, you can't tell someone to get over it. One has to understand something to deal with it. Rape is not something I can understand!  sam

posted by sam444 on July 1, 2008 at 11:50 AM | link to this | reply

RSM, I could almost agree with you on some of this
If it can be shown that this man is still dangerous after 21 years in prison, then by all means don't let him out.
 
Of course most of your post is full of assumptions and is as poorly thought out as most of everything else you write.
 
You don't keno that the parole board in this case is liberal.  You are assuming such,just because you don't like what they have decided. For all you know they are conservatives and they find that the guy has reformed.  You and I do not know this guy and have never once met him or talked with him or seen what his doctors have to say about him.  We know nothing of that man outside of his past crimes.  Neither you nor I have any right to judge him or make a judgment call on this.  The parole broad on the other hand has been trained to do this and have all the facts and observations at their disposal.  Due to this they are the ones who should be making the judgment, not us.  I honestly believe I would not let the guy go from what I have now read, but I am not the one who has to make that call.
 
What I find most interesting here is that you openly show your true mindset here, and it seems to be a very non-Christian one.  You straight out hate the sinner and don't care at all about the sin.  You believe fully in vengeance above all else and wish to spit on justice and the how idea of forgiveness.
 
I very much feel for Tiffany Edens. I can only hope that she finds peace in her life and learns to let go and not live in fear. Did she not understand that his guy was going to get out of jail sooner or later?  That is how it generally works.  Since he didn't commit murder, he did not get a life sentence. I know many women who have been raped and there was no justice for them, thanks to conservative minded people who didn't believe they were raped and allowed the criminal to walk free.  So at least here we see justice being done.
 
Now I beyond belief agree with you the completely ignorance reply that was made to this story.  That was out of place and basically as wrong as it gets.  My first reaction was that it sounds like many of the conservative minded people I have dealt with in the past. But for me to label the guy as being conservative, just because my own personal experience says that conservatives are more likely to protect and defend rapists and their actions would be wrong.  I try not to make such foolish assumptions myself.

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