Go to Nevermind the time - what Day is it?
- Add a comment
- Go to One weekend more.
Mermaid
Thank you, what's that saying, I can't help people that are stupid enough not to help themselves? No that's not it oh well, she's just stupid. Thanks for dropping by.
posted by
LostInLife
on April 8, 2008 at 7:04 AM
| |
reply
a whirlwind read....from fun at the park..to sad marital episode to a positive pacing to move on...it's almost a full length life story my dear...very well written for me...moving on is the word indeed...
posted by
__Purple_Mermaid11__
on April 7, 2008 at 8:33 PM
| |
reply
My sympathies, my second ex is the same type
With her, it is a matter of control. All of the prying into what I am doing and the attempts to lecture me are a power trip that I just walk away from, with whoever of the kids I am taking with me. At times, I have to tell her that since we are divorced, as she wanted, I don't have to listen to her any more.
We know that the key for our own sanity is to focus on the kids away from the ex, to enjoy doing those things the ex would never let us do and generally enjoy being ourselves for awhile. One thing that I found helped me get over the angst of the possibility of getting back together is to simply recognize the fact that she cannot be trusted anymore. One may still not hate and even love one's ex without allowing her to manipulate. Just say, as often as necessary, this little mantra:
I do not hate her. I just don't trust her as far as I can throw her.
posted by
cpklapper
on April 7, 2008 at 4:55 PM
| |
reply
Wifey, thank you!
posted by
LostInLife
on April 7, 2008 at 12:19 PM
| |
reply
Very well put!
And i'm glad you had a fabulous weekend at the park--- kids are so rewarding!
Kudos
posted by
TheWifey
on April 7, 2008 at 11:23 AM
| |
reply
Copy (or write down) this comment's web address (URL), which is:
Next, go to the email or web page where you want to link to this comment, and paste
(or type) the web address.
