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No problems Sassy, it was just a thought.
Luckily here we are not obliged to give any more detail than we wish, or any details at all.
Of course one man's mountain is another's molehill although to the individual concerned their own problems will seem equally serious.
posted by
beachbelle
on October 27, 2003 at 6:37 AM
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BB That would be personal
Too much information to give out on my private life. Everyone has problems, its just that some people go through rougher times than others. I'm at a low point right now due to others ignorance, and I don't want to get into it with strangers. All bad things have a way of working themselves out, mine is through a strong faith in God, and not taking on more then I can handle. One day at a time frame of mind thing.
posted by
Sherri_G
on October 27, 2003 at 6:27 AM
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Sassyass
you should write about those things and how you are feeling. I did this recently when there were a lot of bad things happening and it gave me a vent for what I was feeling. It meant too that I didn't have to vent those feelings so much with the people around me, I agree that at tough times it is hard when your old friends and family are far away. But there may be some new friends about. I hope so. That's what I had to do last year when I was ill and had just had my daughter. Best of luck BB
posted by
beachbelle
on October 27, 2003 at 6:37 AM
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friends
Some people handle things better then others. You being there for your friends is great. I'm falling apart right now also. My friends are too far away to help. When life gets over bearing some people stress so bad, it actually makes them sick or they actually get depressed and find it hard to get back to normal. One blow at a time is tolerable, but when one after the other comes, it is unforgivable, and unfair.
posted by
Sherri_G
on October 27, 2003 at 6:13 AM
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we'll live
just like you did.......at least we take turns and don't have simultaneous dysfunction. Maybe if we drop back five and punt....
posted by
desertsong
on October 25, 2003 at 10:54 AM
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There is a point
people reach where they can not move ahead without stepping back and allowing for a wider perception of their options. By stepping back, they are creating a much wider perherpial view. This is not a natural thing for a human. In our minds, going back is not the answer. But with our tiny faces pressed against the window looking for a door, we have to do what we have to do, we see, and then we progress.
posted by
Flumpystalls3000
on October 25, 2003 at 7:38 AM
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