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Personally, I feel it's ok to watch porn depending on the situation. I would view it first. If it's "not too wild or weird", then, I'll encourage my wife to view it together and get her opinion. At times, it enhances our intimacy but not all the time because her response was " it's all the same, which ever way you do it." I think it's more romantic if it is done spontaneously. That makes the difference.

posted by richinstore on November 12, 2007 at 8:53 PM | link to this | reply

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Yes it is addictive and cand destroy relationships as well as ones own normalcy in sexual satisfaction. It is a dangerous practice.

posted by Justi on November 10, 2007 at 7:29 AM | link to this | reply

I don't like it
I watched them once before with a friend and discussed it with my husband. He borrowed a vcd from a friend but I felt so uncomfortable watching them. I felt that it's degrading and I told him so. I honestly believe that it could ruin a marriage because of trying to compare him and her. Too much of those could poison your marriage.

posted by sobby89 on November 10, 2007 at 6:33 AM | link to this | reply

I enjoy watching porno, it is always good to make love making more intriguing

posted by Lanetay on November 8, 2007 at 8:42 PM | link to this | reply

If i am not mistaken i thought it has already been determined that it can

be addictive, at least i saw a program on cable one night and that's what they were saying.

Also are there not different degrees of porn, and different subjects.  Like i have heard the term soft porn. And then there are many different types, same sex, 3 somes, or even orgies, and the list goes on. My self i dont see how porn could enhance your sex life , i just think your focus in a loving relationship should be on your partner.

posted by callista22001 on November 8, 2007 at 8:23 PM | link to this | reply

hmmm...
from a professional perspective...i would ask the person i was working with why its addictive to them....why are they seeking outward perfection if they are committed in a relationship emotionally...why hook up if thats not what you wanted to start with?

posted by sherri7 on November 8, 2007 at 7:28 PM | link to this | reply

It might "spice" things up a bit for some couples maybe
That is if they are only watching porn. And if their relationship NEEDS porn then it probably not a healthy relationship.

posted by David1Spirit on November 8, 2007 at 5:15 PM | link to this | reply