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You said she's not your boss. Then why worry? Stand up for yourself man! Give her back her medicine and report the matter to your superior! That kind of person must be sorted out!

posted by RobertMadang on October 9, 2007 at 1:55 AM | link to this | reply

My sympathies. It's an unhappy person you're dealing with. Just ignore her.

posted by Ann_Onimous on October 7, 2007 at 5:47 AM | link to this | reply

Mayb she just wasn't feeling well. But keep your distance just in case.
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posted by Whacky on October 5, 2007 at 8:28 PM | link to this | reply

Having worked for a lot of nutcases
You are dealing with a person with an inferiority complex.  You worked too long and too hard to let her personal issues get to you.  Freeze her out, and if you want to confide in someone, do it from a viewpoint of concern.  "Is everything OK with so and so... she has very different lately and it is affecting our work relationship?"

posted by homegirl on October 5, 2007 at 11:51 AM | link to this | reply

I'd save up any internal gasses until I was well within range

then I'd let it rip. Slow and silent, and wait for the look on her face to change.

Snitchin' never works out well. Have lunch and suck up, and let go of the past.

posted by Whysper on October 5, 2007 at 7:47 AM | link to this | reply

I'd have a formal complaint in writing ready to go if I were you.
3 hours does NOT make up for days of attitude.  It's horrible that you're putting up with this kind of bad behavior.  The next time she acts this way, confront her immediately.  Asking the question "why must you snap at me?" is plenty.  Just ask the question with no follow up commentary, and walk away as she squirms.

posted by FineYoungSinger on October 5, 2007 at 7:42 AM | link to this | reply

I concur with richinstore !

posted by afzal50 on October 5, 2007 at 7:28 AM | link to this | reply

jemmie
this lady is definitely creating a ' hell ' for you at workplace. Try avoiding her... if you fail, talk to someone ( your senior )... or plan B ( confront her! )LOL

posted by richinstore on October 4, 2007 at 10:52 PM | link to this | reply

when I was a young man I got into a lot of fights in school and even after I finished school. Anyway what I am getting at is I come to the conclusion that 9 times out of 10 how ever got the first lick in won the fight. so I say yes give her a heads up about what is going on. In other words go ahead and get your licks in. Oh yea the last one standing wins / spinner

posted by spinner on October 4, 2007 at 10:51 PM | link to this | reply