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OTA--
thanks...and I enjoy your visits to this blog and your comments!

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2007 at 11:23 AM | link to this | reply

Julia

Ive read this one a couple of times. This is something I really struggle with for many reasons. I have found it helpful to look at who  I am not, rather than who I am.. just a thought.

I really am enjoying your posts here...~Peace, OTA

posted by Blue_feathers on August 12, 2007 at 11:13 AM | link to this | reply

Troosha--
I think if we don't ask that question, or understand what it was we learned from the experience, then we are going to repeat it.

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2007 at 11:13 AM | link to this | reply

Pat B--
thanks for your wonderful comment--it's great that you did finally learn that others cannot define who you are, no matter how much they might try!

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2007 at 11:12 AM | link to this | reply

A-and-B--
LOL. Or rather, you hesitate to commit to who you are.

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2007 at 11:11 AM | link to this | reply

Battered Knight--
thanks, and welcome to Blogit!

posted by Julia. on August 12, 2007 at 11:09 AM | link to this | reply

Julia
"What did I learn from this experience?" is a powerful question to ask oneself.  It's those kind of questions that can really force us to examine our motives, underlying beliefs, and our true character.  I enjoy your way of thinking....

posted by Troosha on August 12, 2007 at 10:35 AM | link to this | reply

The most important thing I learned in college is who I am.
When I was a child mama said, you're this way. When I was a wife my husband said you're that way. My supervisor at work said this is who you are. So when I went to college I found out they were all wrong. I was only partly, in a small way, who they had decided I was. And since I've learned to learn, sometimes even now I surprise myself. Thanks for your thoughtful post -- well written and insightful!  

posted by Pat_B on August 12, 2007 at 10:14 AM | link to this | reply

Sometimes, I don't even know myself because I hesitate to make the decision.

posted by A-and-B on August 12, 2007 at 6:11 AM | link to this | reply

julia
Your words ring very true

posted by Tattered_Knight on August 11, 2007 at 10:51 PM | link to this | reply

afzal,
you're welcome, and thanks for reading.

posted by Julia. on August 11, 2007 at 9:28 PM | link to this | reply

I agree ! Thanks for sharing this great wisdom !

posted by afzal50 on August 11, 2007 at 6:10 PM | link to this | reply

Living Large--
was that a comment on the comments...or the post?

posted by Julia. on August 11, 2007 at 4:42 PM | link to this | reply

mary--
I will take that under advisement, LOL.

posted by Julia. on August 11, 2007 at 4:40 PM | link to this | reply

proc--
oh, for sure!

posted by Julia. on August 11, 2007 at 4:38 PM | link to this | reply

Write for yourself and all will be well.

posted by Living_Life_Large on August 11, 2007 at 2:53 PM | link to this | reply

Julia - Well, I hope you keep it. You never know who is reading it. You
may be really helping someone silently.  Plus, right now I find many people are really busy with summer.  Well north of the equator anyway, if you know what I mean.

posted by FoliageGold on August 11, 2007 at 2:35 PM | link to this | reply

I think we learn best from ourselves if we are honest and face who we
really are.  Self-delusion stops this process dead.  you know the kind of person who has failed relationships behind them and always blames the other party.

posted by proc on August 11, 2007 at 2:35 PM | link to this | reply

thanks Mary,
I'm glad to hear you like this blog. I often think of closing it down, because it doesn't seem to get much action compared to my other one. But then I think, well, the right people will read it and if that is just one or two, so be it.

posted by Julia. on August 11, 2007 at 2:34 PM | link to this | reply

Julia - I agree that we know ourselves better than anyone, most of the
time but sometimes it's so darn difficult to weave through the thorns and such.  I'm reading a book on spirituality right now and I FINALLY got something.  I think I"ll blog on it, because I wonder if others had the same trouble I did.  I'm really enjoying these posts of yours lately, BTW. 

posted by FoliageGold on August 11, 2007 at 2:25 PM | link to this | reply

IR--
it's good that you know! thanks for the visit today.

posted by Julia. on August 11, 2007 at 2:13 PM | link to this | reply

hi riri and thanks
for bringing the kitty over for a visit. LOL.

posted by Julia. on August 11, 2007 at 2:12 PM | link to this | reply

mysteria--
yes, it definitely is!

posted by Julia. on August 11, 2007 at 2:11 PM | link to this | reply

Julia, Some people find out early in life who they are, and there's always
those whom seek the answer. Me, I'm OK. I know who I am. Hug and a flower for ya Julia

posted by I-R-William on August 11, 2007 at 1:13 PM | link to this | reply

posted by riri0322 on August 11, 2007 at 9:54 AM | link to this | reply

One of the earliest and most important things I wondered in life was
who am I?  It remains the most important of questions!

posted by mysteria on August 11, 2007 at 9:44 AM | link to this | reply