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not put up with a dog--- love the dog!!! and the cats!!!!!!

posted by riri0322 on June 14, 2007 at 10:26 AM | link to this | reply

hehe
Funny I should read this now. I have been feeling a little misogynistic (can a woman be that?) due to being around too many women (cliques, shallow stupid female concerns, etc.) I was an engineer who spent lots of time hanging out with just men too.

posted by FactorFiction on June 14, 2007 at 6:29 AM | link to this | reply

Nicely written. I can so relate to the process you described.
Isn't it sweet to finally figure out all that bending and twisting to be what we think someone else expects is totally unnecessary because they like us just as we really are?

posted by Pat_B on June 14, 2007 at 6:07 AM | link to this | reply

this is a really great post, and a really great maturity in your experience. there are people who journey this discovery and never find this answer... and hey, a dog makes everything a happy ending :0)

posted by rainydayinmay on June 14, 2007 at 4:46 AM | link to this | reply

Good on you.....
some people never learn this life lesson and spend their life through trying to be everything they're not.

posted by dark_mistress on June 14, 2007 at 4:16 AM | link to this | reply

Man, you are exactly right. Exactly right.

posted by Arcadio on June 14, 2007 at 1:32 AM | link to this | reply