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This is Excellent.

posted by _Decshak on February 14, 2007 at 10:06 PM | link to this | reply

TennyA....I did lose her but I'm okay with that...

She was replaced by a more efficient model! LOL

posted by Passionflower on February 13, 2007 at 7:49 PM | link to this | reply

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it is ok to worry...it is ok to think...it is ok to be street smart ..it is ok to be angry..but do not totally loose the old you.

posted by tenny_A on February 13, 2007 at 7:08 PM | link to this | reply

Corbin...I'm not worrying at all...but anyone in their right mind

Would be a bit concerned about their future.

posted by Passionflower on February 13, 2007 at 5:36 PM | link to this | reply

Pat B's right......

Why worry so much.....wait until something has happened then worry about why you didn't worry about it to begin with!

posted by Corbin_Dallas on February 13, 2007 at 3:41 PM | link to this | reply

I shall Bhaskar...thanks.

posted by Passionflower on February 13, 2007 at 3:34 PM | link to this | reply

Didn't hear about the North Korea thing Wiley...

But I"m thankful if that volatile situation has been resolved.

posted by Passionflower on February 13, 2007 at 3:33 PM | link to this | reply

Thanks PatB...I'm glad you learned that lesson to.

Life is often full of suprisese.

posted by Passionflower on February 13, 2007 at 3:32 PM | link to this | reply

Worry is a useless activity. 90% of the time what you worry about

never happens -- but something you never thought of can knock the props out from under you.  When I realized that, I, too, quit being a worry-wart. It's like taking ten pounds off.  Another thing I've noticed -- everybody feels like a stranger at times, even among their close friends & family. The best times I've had have been when I forgot myself and concentrated on making them feel warmly welcomed. :)  

posted by Pat_B on February 13, 2007 at 12:30 PM | link to this | reply

Passionflower

Well, I'm sorry things aren't moving the way they should luv, but I'm sure they will eventually. Look for the good news luv,North Korea matter is settled today at least. God bless ya my friend.

posted by WileyJohn on February 13, 2007 at 11:33 AM | link to this | reply

Passion Do have a great figure ing as you go along

posted by Bhaskar.ing on February 13, 2007 at 8:24 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks Bhaskar...Guess I'll figure things out as I go along, right?

posted by Passionflower on February 13, 2007 at 8:19 AM | link to this | reply

Hi Passion

How lovely is the new-look smarty pants Passion . Congats LOL

posted by Bhaskar.ing on February 13, 2007 at 8:16 AM | link to this | reply

It's good to know that there's at least ONE person out there happy-

Thanks Tanga...God bless you and yours.

posted by Passionflower on February 13, 2007 at 7:18 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks for your sage advice, Whysper??????

LOL...As always, I"m somewhat confused after a conversation with you-- I do thoroughly endorse the END to worry though.

It only causes negative results...nothing positive. Okay, well, I'm off to hide under my bed.

posted by Passionflower on February 13, 2007 at 7:17 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks Drohan...I've found that most people don't

Want you to be honest with them. Most folks would rather not hear the truth.

posted by Passionflower on February 13, 2007 at 7:14 AM | link to this | reply

Always remember that saying

What doesn't kill us, scares the shit out of us and makes us hide under the bed.

Or something like that.  My grandma used to say, that worrying was just borrowing trouble that hasn't happened yet, and you shouldn't borrow trouble because there's no way to pay it back.

I have no idea what that means, but she always made it sound like such an important lesson.

My part of the world sux bowling balls, but you know what?  Neither do I, so I say joke 'em if they can't take a fuck and be done with it.

 

posted by Whysper on February 13, 2007 at 4:50 AM | link to this | reply

HI DEAR PASSION....YOU ARE AVERY KIND AND HONEST WITH YOUR SELF AND OTHERS

posted by drohan254 on February 13, 2007 at 12:16 AM | link to this | reply

Sometimes events make

us stronger. From where I am sitting everything is bright green, lush and fresh. Makes me feel good.

posted by Tanga on February 12, 2007 at 11:17 PM | link to this | reply

hey passionflower - yeah, it's been a tough week for me too but it still

comes with pleasant moments and chances to make things right so i keep pluggin' on 'til the sun shines again.

hope your days are shining too.

posted by fourcats on February 12, 2007 at 10:35 PM | link to this | reply

Mysteria, I think my ability to kick the worry habit was a by-product

Of having lost complete control of my life for so long. I was lost and helpless for so long and then this realization hit me:

"There's one thing you can do! And it's something big that will make a huge difference."

You have to get the revelation yourself though or it won't work.

posted by Passionflower on February 12, 2007 at 9:19 PM | link to this | reply

I'm somewhat like that too Mysteria...

But not as bad as you. I honestly wish you knew someone who could help you focus your thoughts better. With some training, I believe you could learn to shut out their 'voices'.

I've developed this technique over time and it's made a difference. Your strange 'ability' wasn't given to you to harm you but rather to help mankind. But you need to learn to control it better.

Wish we lived closer so we could practice the exercises together.

posted by Passionflower on February 12, 2007 at 9:14 PM | link to this | reply

PassssH...YaY! To lose the worry bug is a great accomplishment

I work on that one a lot.  It's hard.  I also work on my empathy problem.  I have empathy sickness.  I feel way too much of the pain in the world to the point where I have to hide out by myself for a long time before my batteries are charged up enough to play a role in society.

I hope that you find other facets of your personality that will aide you in being the best person you can be.  You are always learning and growing PasssH! That's a great thing! I have faith that you will become the person that you aspire to be.  Me Too! xXx

posted by mysteria on February 12, 2007 at 9:09 PM | link to this | reply

I just pray you're right Waterkat...

But what if you're not? Maybe this isn't normal and we are really different. It wouldn't be the end of the world, would it?

Things are so messed up right now that the world would barely notice us. I'm a realist. I try to go down both paths in my mind to see if I can live with the eventual outcome to both of them.

I can.

posted by Passionflower on February 12, 2007 at 8:59 PM | link to this | reply

By the way....

I will write again soon, I have a lot to digest.....you have reminded me of my fave quote which I even wrote on my own profile " I am many things, no one thing defines me.  At my last count there were about 8 different me's.  Oops Ive let the cat (kat) out of the bag!,,, see this is also why I doubt my sanity.  But then again, I believe it could be normal for all of us to have any number of me's, depending on where you are at on your journey....what do u think Passion? 

 

posted by WaterKat on February 12, 2007 at 8:55 PM | link to this | reply

LOL Afzal...you might try reading a post every now and then...

If you read this, you'd know that my life is anything but that right now!

posted by Passionflower on February 12, 2007 at 8:40 PM | link to this | reply

Whacky...I had no choice!

I don't have health insurance and the worry was causing me to have to see a chiropractor and massage therapist regularly. PLus, I was getting high blood pressure.

I decided that there was no way it could be God's will for me to worry. So I just quit.

posted by Passionflower on February 12, 2007 at 8:39 PM | link to this | reply

Good for you! You really stopped worring?

Wow! Now make up your mind to be happy!

posted by Whacky on February 12, 2007 at 8:16 PM | link to this | reply

Excellent post . Take care . Life is great and lovely .

posted by afzal50 on February 12, 2007 at 8:09 PM | link to this | reply