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I beleive that Sometimes, wether something is right for you or not,,, youre meant to go with it. Why? You will find out for sure.
posted by
WaterKat
on February 15, 2007 at 1:04 PM
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RedScribe
There is nothing wrong with what you want...I hope he is the one and that all your expectations come true!Happy Valentines Day...........
posted by
Offy
on February 14, 2007 at 6:04 AM
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Wanting good things
is good. Hang in there. Listen, feel and pray.
Lou
posted by
Cameraeye
on February 12, 2007 at 6:14 PM
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I once had the same feelings about a man... We've been married eleven
years now. Happily.
Good luck.
posted by
Renigade
on February 12, 2007 at 3:02 PM
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There is something I believe all the others missed.
You said he says...well saying and doing are two different things. You must examine the fruit on his tree. You say you want all kinds of fruit, then examine his to see if there is any there. Love moves into action. Women tend to be moved by their emotions and hearing men say all the right things. I say now give it some time to see his love for you in action. If you really want to know come out the clouds long enough to observe what's on this mans tree. While I hope the best for you I understand the importance of removing yourself long enough from the emotion to think clearly.
posted by
Isabella07
on February 12, 2007 at 2:53 PM
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you know the answer.... let it out
posted by
Blue_feathers
on February 11, 2007 at 4:25 AM
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I agree with all the wise men here . No better comment could be added to
what they have already said. Good post.
posted by
afzal50
on February 11, 2007 at 2:26 AM
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Redscribe...
Greenfields and Talion wrote wise and beautiful words. If love exists between you and this man, it does not need to prove anything ... it just is. Rightfully the mind will question, but in the end the real home of love is the heart ... When a man is truly in love he will do anything to be with his love. Best wishes to you.
posted by
Chilitree
on February 11, 2007 at 12:09 AM
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By trusting yourself
and asking the heart and the head. No relationship has all the elements you describe - these are old tapes playing in our head about what permanent relationships should be like. The reality is different. If someone has some of these and you feel very strongly about them, then they are the one. It also depends on what you want in life. Also, asking yourself every night before you go to sleep if he is the guy for you, will give you answers, seriously!
posted by
Greenfields
on February 10, 2007 at 9:08 PM
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RedScribe
I knew my wife was the one for me after the second date. How did I know? Because I couldn't come up with a legitimate reason why she wasn't. As I got to know her better and discovered her foibles and flaws and those ugly little things we all hide from the world, I didn't run away like I'd done with every other woman I'd dated. I found myself justifying them, rationalizing them away, figuring out ways to deal with them. For every reason I found to leave, I found ten to stay. Yet I still had fears and doubts. Still I wondered if I was making some horrible mistake. And then something dawned on me. She'd discovered my foibles and flaws and those ugly little things I hid from the world and she didn't run away either. Whether or not she was the one for me was only half of the equation. The equally important other half was whether or not I was the one for her. It wasn't just about how I felt, but how she felt too. Once I realized I was the one for her, all of the doubts and fears melted away. I had all the proof I needed.
posted by
Talion
on February 10, 2007 at 8:52 PM
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