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posted by
ericalynn
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July 5, 2007
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advice
I am not offended in the least at your sensible advice i appreciate your views and you have made some very good comments. Thankyou for your time in commenting your response is very much appreciated.
Kind regards Jo
posted by
hunnybunny1
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February 5, 2007
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He would be complaining...
if he knew about it, and you know that, or you wouldn't be asking. Fantasising is ok, but not when there is a real, actual other person involved - even if he lives far away. Your husband might see it as unfaithful. You've progressed with this other guy, from internet to phone. In a few months, the phone won't be enough, and you'll be tempted to meet him. It might seem like harmless fun, but you're on a dangerous slippery slope - trust me, I've been there.
There are lots of ways you can bring fantasy back into your sex life with your husband without there being another person involved. Talk to him about spicing your sex life up - but be careful not to apportion any blame for the lack of frequency on him - accept that this is a problem shared by both of you.
Finally, end it with the other guy. It might seem exciting - internet relationships are intense and sexy because you feel like you can talk about anything, and that the other person really gets you, but you are projecting your fantasies onto someone you don't really know, and because you don't know him, he seems to be the man of your dreams. He isn't. You wouldn't have spent 12 years with your hubby if he didn't do it for you!
Good luck - hope you're not offended by this advice.
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ClareHill
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February 5, 2007
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