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I'm rooting for you guys!
Take it one giant step at a time. You've come this far, take the next step! I think everything will work out, if you just keep your heart and your mind open to the possibilities.
posted by
sexinthecity
on January 18, 2007 at 8:58 AM
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Hey, good luck girl!
posted by
MariaMaria
on January 17, 2007 at 12:31 AM
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Life can be strangely wonderful ... all I can say to encourage you is be wise but if you KNOW (not think) that this love is true, all will fall into place just right.
Love is not negotiable
It is not for sale
Nor is it frail
It will not fail.
posted by
Chilitree
on January 16, 2007 at 1:48 AM
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posted by
Chilitree
on January 16, 2007 at 1:39 AM
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Go ahead my friend God will take care of you . He is the supreme
Protector of all . I pray for your success in finally settling . I would be glad to meet you if it is in India and call the couple for lunch or dinner as you please. Nice post .
posted by
afzal50
on January 16, 2007 at 1:17 AM
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Have to second Lou's comments and with this suggestion
Perhaps you can schedule your trip as if it was a vacation to that distant location. Make sure you have all of the State Department/passport/visa/customs matters straightened out as if your only intent was a vacation. Book your own hotel rooms, schedule things to do. Then you can invite him to the outings you had planned. If the chemistry is there, you can do the rest of the itinerary with him and return with more confidence in your feelings. If it is not, you have a full schedule of fun things to take your mind of the love that wasn't to be.
Carl Peter
posted by
cpklapper
on January 15, 2007 at 10:43 PM
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My friend,
I don't know where you are going. But all countries do not have the civil rights we have here. What is their law regarding females? Do you have a consul contact there? Your State Department can help. Look it up on the Internet if you have not already done so.
Just don't get to another country and find he isn't your match and you do not know how to exit the country safely. You sound adult and going to see the guy isn't unreasonable just important and a time for severe preparation by you and get your aces in a row. Make up your will, Not silly my dear.
Write some more. I am in your corner. (I traveled to see my guy buy only on the other coast of USA.)
Lou
posted by
Cameraeye
on January 15, 2007 at 8:31 PM
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