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aw, Decshak!

That is a bummer.  It stinks when you experience this recall because it seems like you cannot turn it off, that you are forced to sit there and be hurt again.

posted by RachelAnna on January 11, 2007 at 8:28 AM | link to this | reply

That same thing happened to me this morning. I don't know how the memory

was triggered, but suddently I had to watch as my brain replayed a love affair that suddenly ended when the guy had to move to a different town and I couldn't afford to quit my job and go with him.  Suddenly he was not cooperating with me and he was finding ways to make me angry or to put me down.  Not a good feeling....

posted by _Decshak on January 11, 2007 at 8:07 AM | link to this | reply

I wish there was a switch to turn off memories like that!

Take care.

posted by Whacky on January 6, 2007 at 8:38 PM | link to this | reply

Rach

Isn't it odd how that happens?

posted by MiaElla on January 6, 2007 at 11:52 AM | link to this | reply

Hi Rach - I think that often people react in certain ways without realizing

the harm or frustration they are causing others. Often people speak out only from a perspective of how they are feeling at the moment, totally oblivious to the impacts they are having on others. This is not an unusual thing and is, in fact, quite common in human affairs. I think they probably hurt you more than they intended to, if in fact, they had intentions to that end, at all.

posted by telemachus on January 6, 2007 at 10:01 AM | link to this | reply

Think afresh forget bad happenings .

posted by afzal50 on January 6, 2007 at 8:25 AM | link to this | reply

I hate that when that happens....

if only we could forgive and actually forget!

Take care.....heres a hug

posted by _Symphony_ on January 6, 2007 at 8:19 AM | link to this | reply