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Thanks Sally and Sex and the City- you are the best. It's not freaking easy. I said goodbye to one last night for the last time. I cried, but I feel refreshed today. I know what I want- there is just no settling for less.
posted by
RedScribe
on December 13, 2006 at 11:31 AM
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Red
You touched on a very interesting thing...why do they call? I don't know but I assume it is because there could be unfinished business in their mind? Maybe because they still think of you in a fond way? It is very odd indeed and I can relate to it. Last night a voice from the past left a message on my voice mail. I thought what the heck is he calling me for...I have nothing to say to him.
I don't know the clear answer but I am glad to see you have taken a position to move on and I know there is someone out there for you my friend...Merry Christmas..Sally
posted by
Offy
on December 13, 2006 at 5:09 AM
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Hey Doll
I finally started to let go of the men of my past when I didn't call back, email, text, etc. While at first it was hard, it finally got easier. Their contacting attempts dimmed and finally stopped altogether. It was an unspoken joint effort between me and those men to stop hurting one another.
And if Carrie could give up Big (well, for a short time) for the Russian, I have every confidence in you with giving up these men of the past.
posted by
sexinthecity
on December 12, 2006 at 9:00 PM
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Dear RedScribe
Thank your for expressing your feelings, many people cannot or will not. But in the world of uncertainty it is important to let yourself hear the words from your heart.
You are expressing your plan of action and you seem quite mature about the men in your past life stuff. Stick to you guns, you seem in control.
Hey, I think it is nice to be remembered in the season when special items are reinvented to celebrate the holidays. For instance, you favorite memories category. See, you were important to them.. Now you have moved on but you are still shedding light on their past. Good Work. You must have been a good friend to these guys.
Ultimately you will meet the person who shares your dreams when you are having the same dreams. It is a matter of time.
Good luck, and I hope you don't mind this older woman's thoughts. 
Have a great Holiday, Merry Christmas.
Lou
posted by
Cameraeye
on December 12, 2006 at 4:09 PM
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