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Thanks Tanga...I think so too.

Do you guys there in Zambia celebrate Christmas?

posted by Passionflower on December 10, 2006 at 6:17 AM | link to this | reply

I agree Bhaskar...and believe me, I've been searching

For someone passionate with similar world views. It's alot tougher than you might think.

posted by Passionflower on December 10, 2006 at 6:16 AM | link to this | reply

PUnday....I'm so sorry to hear about your ex-wife's illness.

That's very sad, but she's lucky to have you to help her thru this time.

posted by Passionflower on December 10, 2006 at 6:15 AM | link to this | reply

A happy new year and a happy new relationship, is what you need PF.

posted by Bhaskar.ing on December 10, 2006 at 5:22 AM | link to this | reply

Maybe teh new year will bring better

tidings. Hope the tree does make things a little less gloomy.

posted by Tanga on December 9, 2006 at 10:17 PM | link to this | reply

If it's any comfort PF, I'm in a similar situation. Only difference, I now

call it a marriage or remarriage. Otherwise, the descriptions become insulting to one, or both...and since y friend is battling cancer, I need to start being as charitable as i can at home. Otherwise I will be a hypocrite AND killing off the mother of my children faster than if i gave full prayer and support. It tooka year at least to get here...shalom my dear PF and remain the great Flower God made you. U r beautiful. Merry Christmas. Keep the Faith. Immanuel...promise. Neil

posted by salem8 on December 9, 2006 at 8:42 PM | link to this | reply

If I had time and energy to go down to First Monday in Canton

I could find a great old Pie Safe, Bel. Hobby Lobby has one that "LOOKS" old. It has the alluminum cut out Squares in the doors like the old ones did for about a $100 bucks.

posted by Passionflower on December 9, 2006 at 5:43 PM | link to this | reply

OOOOOOOO find a nice antique piecase

they add so much character.

posted by bel_1965 on December 9, 2006 at 5:33 PM | link to this | reply

I'm learning Corbin.

For some reason it takes me alot longer to figure stuff out...LOL!

posted by Passionflower on December 9, 2006 at 5:31 PM | link to this | reply

There you go Passion.....

You make the best that you can of the situation.........

posted by Corbin_Dallas on December 9, 2006 at 5:19 PM | link to this | reply

Thanks Blanche...I DO always try to appreciate everything

Richard does. He's really been great. He tries to make it as easy as he can...sometimes he gets bitchy, but that's to be expected.

posted by Passionflower on December 9, 2006 at 5:17 PM | link to this | reply

We just got back from shopping Timmy...

we got a really cute little 2 footer, plus some ornaments and tinsel.

posted by Passionflower on December 9, 2006 at 5:14 PM | link to this | reply

Thanks for singing to me Taps...that was inspirational.

I guess for now, I've sort of given up on  achieving my dreams. But you're right. I just need to rest thru the holidays, then I begin my struggle again.

posted by Passionflower on December 9, 2006 at 5:13 PM | link to this | reply

passion

Peaches and cream? No.......can things get worse? Yes. Put up a tree

posted by TIMMYTALES on December 9, 2006 at 4:20 PM | link to this | reply

Passionflower, another person's pain doesn't count. it's not a contest.

So, yeah, I hear you. it's an insenstive thing to say, sometimes, other times maybe it's a wakeup call, to shake you up and look around and say, It could be way worse.

I was looking for my luggage, PP got a storage unit, we were that close to breaking up.  Look at it this way, you could only have those bags to live out of, without the storage locker and Richard's place.  As bad as it is, leverage it, don't blow this opportunity.  He's a standup guy, don't abuse him and lose him as a friend. Just some advice from a friend who cares.  Patience has its limits.

posted by Blanche. on December 9, 2006 at 3:27 PM | link to this | reply

I think the little tree might perk you up

or at the very least infuse a little Christmas spirit.  And come the new year it sounds like you have some decisions to make. "I'm tired of being sick and tired" is not a good place to be.  Life is too short - follow a path that will bring joy back into your life...  

posted by Troosha on December 9, 2006 at 2:03 PM | link to this | reply

No you haven't, Passionflower. Maybe for now, maybe for the Christmas season, but you will keep fignting fate and reaching for what you really want and need. Its not in you to give up completely.    Remember that old song, "Fight, fight, fight it with all of your might....You can bet as sure as you live, something's gotta give, something's gotta give, something's gotta give"

posted by TAPS. on December 9, 2006 at 12:26 PM | link to this | reply

Thanks Manda...sweet of you...

posted by Passionflower on December 9, 2006 at 12:00 PM | link to this | reply

hi, hope things get better!

posted by MandaLee on December 9, 2006 at 11:47 AM | link to this | reply

Poor Maggie...You mean you have to get out and go

OUt into the snow and cold today?????????  Oh Gawd!  That's awful.

posted by Passionflower on December 9, 2006 at 11:29 AM | link to this | reply

Yes Joe, I think so...I"m tired of being sick and tired.

posted by Passionflower on December 9, 2006 at 11:26 AM | link to this | reply

Passion, you should probably put up that little tree.

And, no Dear.  Life isn't always Peaches N Cream.

posted by Joe_Love on December 9, 2006 at 11:13 AM | link to this | reply

Oh, Dear, I'm going to get ready to go to this wedding I don't want to to go to and think about a response to this one.  It's a toughie!

posted by MaggieMae on December 9, 2006 at 10:50 AM | link to this | reply

That's a great idea Mysteria....Good luck with your therapy!

I used to have a lot of empathy too. I'm weary and depressed right now and just not in the mood to care about the less fortunate. Perhaps someone else could care about them for a day or two.

posted by Passionflower on December 9, 2006 at 9:27 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks David, but I'm just too depressed about my current

Living arrangement to think positive. Maybe later.

posted by Passionflower on December 9, 2006 at 9:25 AM | link to this | reply

Hi PassssH :)

When people tell me, "Well, it could be worse", it never seems to help at all.  It makes me think of those less fortunate than me and then I get depressed.  I have so much empathy, to my detriment it seems.

I go to the hypnotist again this Monday and I am going to see if he can help me channel my empathy in positive ways...

posted by mysteria on December 9, 2006 at 9:07 AM | link to this | reply

How about ".....things will only get better....."!

Gotta think positive!

posted by David1Spirit on December 9, 2006 at 9:04 AM | link to this | reply