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afzal50
Despite the fact that at times I might appear to be taking it lightly; I've done more grieving than anyone can know....most of it during the marraige, and there's more to come. It is sad. It's not fair to the kids. It's not fair to anyone. My husband has been unhappy in this relationship since day one; his mother liked me, and she didn't like his other girlfriends. Since she had so much influence over her children, and she was pushing him to propose every other week while we were dating, he married me. He still, however, liked his other girlfriends, and never disconnected with them. I can't tell you how many times women called asking for my husband, and then hung up when I asked their name. I will be very quickly replaced. A long marraige that had no honesty in it, is, in my opinion, much sadder.
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Dandell
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December 9, 2006
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It's really really very sad .
posted by
afzal50
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December 9, 2006
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Wacky
It certainly feels that way. My faith always seems to get stronger during tough times....that is, after I've thrown my 'two year old tantrum' and stomped my feet for a while, then accepted the trial...!

Thanks for reading.
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Dandell
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December 8, 2006
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Ariala...
Thank you, my friend. This has been a long time in coming. Just weird when it's getting to be official. The song was a message from God for sure. He's been very gentle with me lately. My best to you and the BL!
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Dandell
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December 8, 2006
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Sort of sounds like God is watching over you!
That is good!

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Whacky
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December 8, 2006
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Dandell, I'm sorry about your husband filing for divorce, but at least you
were comforted by the song and feeling it was a message from God.
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Ariala
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December 8, 2006
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