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Happy to hear it Blagging--

posted by Passionflower on November 20, 2006 at 11:42 AM | link to this | reply

He was a dud Offbeat...I just posted about the kiss.

YUK!

posted by Passionflower on November 20, 2006 at 11:41 AM | link to this | reply

I'm not getting snippy Blanche...damnit!!!!!!!!

posted by Passionflower on November 20, 2006 at 11:40 AM | link to this | reply

I'm really happy for you Sexinthecity--

Actually, no I'm not! I hate happy love stories-

posted by Passionflower on November 20, 2006 at 11:31 AM | link to this | reply

I used websites too....

but then learned that what I wanted in a man had been right under my nose all along.

posted by sexinthecity on November 20, 2006 at 10:31 AM | link to this | reply

PF

I just got back in and read your email..good luck with the date..

posted by Offy on November 20, 2006 at 10:12 AM | link to this | reply

What's easy for me to say, Passionflower. I've gone YEARS between dates

or relationships. Don't get snippy with ME, girlfriend, just go and have fun. 

posted by Blanche. on November 20, 2006 at 10:00 AM | link to this | reply

Oh that's terrible...

I think you just hit on a bad site. There is obviously a culture there that says that kind of behaviour is acceptable and a bunch of bored women encouraging them. Get out and be proud that you won't be a part of it. Trust me, there are good men out there - I found one!

posted by blagging on November 20, 2006 at 9:21 AM | link to this | reply

Sure...easy for you to say, Blanche...LOL!

posted by Passionflower on November 20, 2006 at 9:18 AM | link to this | reply

Well, if you spill the soup all over you, Passionflower, just excuse

yuourself, go to the women's room and call Offbeats, she'll bring you a change of clothes.  Seriously, who cares about the small stuff like that? It should be more whether you connect, he likes poetry, can talk about something other than football, business or your boobs (or just doesn't stare at them, that's a dealbreaker for me, at least be discreet).  Whatever, you'll know.

posted by Blanche. on November 20, 2006 at 8:47 AM | link to this | reply

Okay, cool Bhaskar...it will be a fun ride.

(no crickets will be harmed in the making of this story)

posted by Passionflower on November 20, 2006 at 8:26 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks Nanaroo...me and Sally both have pretty much

Tried them all.

posted by Passionflower on November 20, 2006 at 8:25 AM | link to this | reply

Blanche, I have a lunch date...maybe this guy will be nice.

I'm nervous. What if I spill soup all over me?

posted by Passionflower on November 20, 2006 at 8:25 AM | link to this | reply

Passionflower, I think Teddypoet has a good point. It just may be that the

internet dating thing is not for you.  Don't give up on "men", they're not all alike. You're just getting a rotten subsample.

posted by Blanche. on November 20, 2006 at 8:05 AM | link to this | reply

passionflower

... sorry to hear ... maybe you should try a different site?

posted by Nanaroo on November 20, 2006 at 8:05 AM | link to this | reply

LMAO Passion...Okay then.....whenever!

posted by Bhaskar.ing on November 20, 2006 at 8:03 AM | link to this | reply

LMAO Bhaskar...Okay then.....whatever!

posted by Passionflower on November 20, 2006 at 7:52 AM | link to this | reply

Passion

I am ready to play an unannoying insect, Lol

posted by Bhaskar.ing on November 20, 2006 at 6:29 AM | link to this | reply

No cricket, Bhaskar...

Here in Dallas a cricket is a small annoying insect....LOL!

posted by Passionflower on November 20, 2006 at 6:24 AM | link to this | reply

But all my talents are latent. Wait until they become patent. Hahaa

I play Cricket. Do you know the game? Americans don't.

posted by Bhaskar.ing on November 20, 2006 at 6:18 AM | link to this | reply

P. F:   But Love does have a mysterious way of finding Love. I will catch up with you.

posted by Bhaskar.ing on November 20, 2006 at 6:15 AM | link to this | reply

Didn't know that Bhaskar...what do you play?

You're a man of many talents.

posted by Passionflower on November 20, 2006 at 6:15 AM | link to this | reply

Yeah everyone tells me that Wiley...

Just not sure I believe...

posted by Passionflower on November 20, 2006 at 6:13 AM | link to this | reply

Hi Passionflower

I'm even better the musician!!!

posted by Bhaskar.ing on November 20, 2006 at 6:13 AM | link to this | reply

Passionflower

Well, that about sums up the online dating sights luv and no, all men aren't like that. Love will find you when He thinks you're ready luv.

posted by WileyJohn on November 19, 2006 at 10:08 PM | link to this | reply

Thanks a bunch BandanaFish....

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 9:27 PM | link to this | reply

Mason...Sadly, most tornadoes won't qualify for federal assistance.

I should write a post about this. Even though an F3 might completely destroy several hundred homes, it's not enough (widespread) damage for federal assistance.

Is there any chance you could get a good 7. 2 earthquake???? Or maybe you could just fly out here....got any frequent flyer miles stored up?

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 9:26 PM | link to this | reply

Okay, Lilane but I hate to give up on you.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 9:24 PM | link to this | reply

Thanks for the kind words Teddy...the words of a true poet...LOL

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 9:23 PM | link to this | reply

Me too Bel...hugs to Carl and the kids.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 9:22 PM | link to this | reply

Ha, Ha...you're quite witty, Whacky...witty and Whacky!!

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 9:22 PM | link to this | reply

Passionflower

I have tried them all, beside I can get sex its just a real relationship is what I wanthe is out there some where

posted by lustorlove on November 19, 2006 at 9:19 PM | link to this | reply

Passionflower...

posted by _teddypoet_ on November 19, 2006 at 9:12 PM | link to this | reply

Lustor...I know what you're saying but I don't really think you are.

I'm sorry I keep on hammering at you, but I think you could do this if you'd set your mind to it. You know how lonely life is without someone to share it with. Just start working on it every day.

Watch what you're eating. Exercise. You'll be really proud of yourself. We'll be here to keep encouraging you. Have you tried Hoodia? or weight watchers?

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 9:06 PM | link to this | reply

pf

I dont know if you read my blog when I said I just didnt have the energy to try any longer, now you will know what I am talking about

posted by lustorlove on November 19, 2006 at 9:00 PM | link to this | reply

Thanks Offbeat...I had an essay to write so I've been busy.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 8:58 PM | link to this | reply

I know Lustor...it's all very discourageing...I'm giving up.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 8:57 PM | link to this | reply

Blanche...I'm quitting the whole dating thing for awhile

Just don't have the heart for it anymore.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 8:56 PM | link to this | reply

Ha, ha Tim...guess you're not one of "those" guys...

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 8:56 PM | link to this | reply

passion

Some guys just have to ruin it for all of us.........scum

posted by TIMMYTALES on November 19, 2006 at 8:45 PM | link to this | reply

Damn, Passionflower, I'm glad I didn't go that route, thanks for the

warning.  Ten years ago, I did put in personal ads in the local weekly and online, and found out there is more than one married man, looking to cheat, which I naiively wasn't expecting, but nothing like this.  Things have changed, and not for the better.

posted by Blanche. on November 19, 2006 at 8:38 PM | link to this | reply

PF

Have you ever been on their rating section?  Its no wonder men think  we're are all made up of boobs, so many of the gals are displaying their boobs and men are with animals of some kind .  What does that say to you

posted by lustorlove on November 19, 2006 at 7:23 PM | link to this | reply

MG

hummmmmmmmmm?

posted by lustorlove on November 19, 2006 at 7:19 PM | link to this | reply

I am soooooooooooooo glad I am not single.

posted by bel_1965 on November 19, 2006 at 7:03 PM | link to this | reply

Sounds like he was the boob!

posted by Whacky on November 19, 2006 at 6:42 PM | link to this | reply

It's a date then!

..now all we have to do is figure out the geography part... maybe if San Gabriel has a tornado?...

posted by MasonGarrett on November 19, 2006 at 5:39 PM | link to this | reply

I don't have any experience on dating sites... so, good luck?

posted by bandanafish on November 19, 2006 at 5:37 PM | link to this | reply

Now wait a minute

Who was the blogger on here a couple years ago that met a woman on E-Harmony and went from Montana ( I think) to Oregon? He returned with the woman and she stayed with him for a couple weeks. She went back and then 4 weeks later her b/friend and her cleaned out the blogger...

Who was that? It was such a bizzare story and needless to say he dropped E-Harmony after he bought another computer...

All sites have their drawbacks period..There is no perfect dating site. I have been on E, Match and Yahoo..they all are a filtering process..

posted by Offy on November 19, 2006 at 4:08 PM | link to this | reply

PF

You have

posted by Offy on November 19, 2006 at 4:00 PM | link to this | reply

Ladychar...at least you had some fun with it.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 3:41 PM | link to this | reply

I've tried E-Harmony Troosha and you're right...

It is a LOT more civilized.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 3:40 PM | link to this | reply

Shuttercat...think I'll lie low for a while...

I've got a busy week ahead anyway.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 3:37 PM | link to this | reply

Offbeat...No lesbians have contacted me yet.

I'm glad you're still having fun on the site though.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 3:36 PM | link to this | reply

Shelly....thru its ups and downs -

Dating is a normal, HEALTHY thing for single people to be involved in. You shouldn't be afraid of it.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 3:34 PM | link to this | reply

Thanks for trying to cheer me up Mason--

That was very sweet of you. I'd love to share pizza and wine with you.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 3:33 PM | link to this | reply

Passion is this the dating site that has all the banner ads?

There are men who are not superficial, you might have to drive a ways to find them.

posted by AlienInsomniac on November 19, 2006 at 2:25 PM | link to this | reply

PF

I think a lot of men view internet dating sites as a "meat market" - a veritable smorgasbord of women to sleep with .  You have to wonder how they expect to actually get a "date" with someone who they've just asked for a boob shot from!?!?  For whatever it's worth try eharmony.com - very civilized. 

posted by Troosha on November 19, 2006 at 1:43 PM | link to this | reply

..LOL..I've been catching up on your past blogs... many comments

could made.. but I'll respond to the latest... yes, we're, (both male and female) 'the same,'...in many ways... But don't give up... I had a very nice date with a blogger friend... and none of the subjects you mentioned came up... as it turned out we discovered in conversation that we had both worked for the same corporation at different locations... and throughout the evening we enjoyed a large pepperoni pizza, a couple wine coolers, and very pleasent conversation... it can happen!  If I'm ever out your way (like if I win a free trip to Dallas or somehow end up there)... I love to get together for a perreroni and some coolers... whatayasay? ...now who loves ya, huh?

posted by MasonGarrett on November 19, 2006 at 11:32 AM | link to this | reply

my girlfriend bought me a one-month trail membership

when i was separated - and i really had fun filling out the info - i just joked around alot - never posted a picture.  went on 4 dates and called it quits. 

posted by ladychardonnay on November 19, 2006 at 11:23 AM | link to this | reply

PF

I wonder why people are assuming this is the Match site? I just spent about 20 minutes in there and it was all good..but I keep my IM off except for my favorites. Did I tell you I got another email from another lesbian?? I swear those women move faster then do some of the men...

posted by Offy on November 19, 2006 at 11:22 AM | link to this | reply

And you wanted ME to join this site??? LOL No thanks!

posted by shelly_b on November 19, 2006 at 11:21 AM | link to this | reply

LadyChar...I've never tried that one..

All of them are different though. But men aren't .... men are all the same.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 11:20 AM | link to this | reply

i was on matchmaker and nobody mentioned blow jobs

and the dates i went on a kiss wasn't even considered - where are you guys going?  sounds like you are hanging our at the bar i work at????

posted by ladychardonnay on November 19, 2006 at 11:19 AM | link to this | reply

Thanks for your concern Maggie....

I'm not ready to give up yet...but I'm pretty disgusted.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 11:18 AM | link to this | reply

This is true Blackcat...E-harmony is pretty upscale...

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 11:17 AM | link to this | reply

I know what you mean Offbeats....

I read your "KIss alot of Toads" blog earlier - it's all true....

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 11:16 AM | link to this | reply

LadyChar...I just want to talk to a man for more than 10 minutes.

And the subject of sex/tits/blow jobs etc NOT come up- Is that too much to hope for????

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 11:15 AM | link to this | reply

I know exactly what you're saying Lilane...I met a guy on here

A While back who told me that we were soul mates and I was the one, etc. He filled my head with bullshit and I believed him - (i'm not talking about the guy from India. This guy was from Minneapolis)

It was all lies. He really hurt me alot. I guess because I let myself believe in him.

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 11:14 AM | link to this | reply

Offbeat...I DID NOT send the guy a pic of my boobs.

He got mad at me because I wouldn't do it. I was so shocked. He told me:::

"Well, I just wanted you to know the type of man I am. If you've got small breasts then our relationship can not go forward."

I said, "Well, I can tell you right now....I've got large breasts! But you'll damn sure NEVER SEE THEM!"

posted by Passionflower on November 19, 2006 at 11:10 AM | link to this | reply

PF

Now you see what I am  talking about, its all about sex and boobs.  Most men these days dont want to get involved in going out and doing things unless in involves going to bed.  Romance is dead and its hard to find one that is romantic.  I asked my man that I have been seeing to come to dinner before we go to bed in my house and I havent had a response from him yet.  And he is on line right now and hasnt even said hi yet.

posted by lustorlove on November 19, 2006 at 10:36 AM | link to this | reply

LOL... depends which site you tried. Some are worse than others.

posted by -blackcat on November 19, 2006 at 10:35 AM | link to this | reply

Well there sure are a lot of them out there...but I remain hopeful..Problem is, there are a million of them on this site..You sent a guy a picture of your boobs? OMG..no wonder you left them wanting more~

I will also say I have met a couple nice ones (that have potential) and of course the M who was the biggest jerk..So now it is a filtering process..so far so good...and of course some small set backs...

posted by Offy on November 19, 2006 at 10:34 AM | link to this | reply

i was on a match site for a month

nothing but lies and weirdos - but a couple of my friends had great successes with it.  maybe our standards are a little higher.

posted by ladychardonnay on November 19, 2006 at 10:26 AM | link to this | reply

Passion, I had a feeling this was going to happen.  I didn't want to see you become depressed again.  I'm sorry you had to get involved with the stupid match game.  I knew from watching someone else go thru it that this is what you were going to encounter.  Well, I'm sorry.  You deserve better.

Did you say that the beginning was just a test?  Well, have you had enough to show you that it wasn't worth your money or time?  I hope so.

posted by MaggieMae on November 19, 2006 at 10:21 AM | link to this | reply