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All good strategies, SoloWriter- and all are things I already employ. I'm surrounded by friends, hobbies, projects, and I even have two careers. If I were any busier, someone would have to medicate me. But it doesn't stop me from wanting to sleep next to someone at the end of the day....
I know, it's that whole "when you're not looking" thing. But even when we're not looking, don't we always secretly hope we'll meet Him/Her? But you're not supposed to say that when you're single- even though everyone I know who is single thinks the exact same thing....
posted by
RedScribe
on November 21, 2006 at 3:27 PM
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If I ever get lonely, here's what I'll do (I'm busy being married with small children right now, but anyway...) ~
I'll throw myself into my favorite hobbies that involve groups. For instance: orchestra, art classes, writing clubs that meet in person. Then I won't say anything to anyone about looking for companionship, but just let what happens happen, because that is the only way I've ever made my real friends in the past.
posted by
Jenasis
on November 21, 2006 at 5:26 AM
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#3
I agree, girl. But I do have to say that I think everyone suffers from "the grass is always greener" syndrome a bit. I'm planning a five month trip to Europe- if I was attached, I probably wouldn't be doing that.
posted by
RedScribe
on November 20, 2006 at 1:28 PM
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I think #3 is especially true!
posted by
Kasthu
on November 20, 2006 at 1:25 PM
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