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MandaLee

Thanks  

posted by Sunnybeach7 on November 15, 2006 at 3:37 PM | link to this | reply

sunny, yes, remember the good times.

posted by MandaLee on November 15, 2006 at 10:00 AM | link to this | reply

Rumored

This is so true. Thanks.

posted by Sunnybeach7 on November 15, 2006 at 6:17 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny, the pain never ever goes completely away..as already said...

try to remember the good times....

posted by Rumor on November 14, 2006 at 7:20 AM | link to this | reply

Troosha

I've been living in the "now" for a while. It gets easier with practice and time.  Once you realize that there is really no past or future, just "right now" it becomes easier.

posted by Sunnybeach7 on November 14, 2006 at 6:02 AM | link to this | reply

Sunny

Looking forward (as difficult as it may be at times) is the only way to overcome bad memories or hurts that linger.  My shrink always says "stay in the moment" - meaning don't dwell on the past and don't fret about the future.  It's hard to do. 

posted by Troosha on November 13, 2006 at 3:35 PM | link to this | reply

Dave

It's the best way to get over things when you are able to do this. Thanks.

posted by Sunnybeach7 on November 13, 2006 at 10:18 AM | link to this | reply

I deal with it by moving on.

posted by _dave_says_ack_ on November 13, 2006 at 10:15 AM | link to this | reply

Afzal

It can be difficult. Thanks.  

posted by Sunnybeach7 on November 13, 2006 at 10:13 AM | link to this | reply

Tanga

It's a good idea. Thanks

posted by Sunnybeach7 on November 13, 2006 at 10:12 AM | link to this | reply

ladychardonnay

Thanks

posted by Sunnybeach7 on November 13, 2006 at 10:11 AM | link to this | reply

I find it very hard to deal with such kind of past pain.Good post.

posted by afzal50 on November 13, 2006 at 8:54 AM | link to this | reply

The sadness always returns

try remember the good times

posted by Tanga on November 13, 2006 at 7:24 AM | link to this | reply

i cry - let it out - and it goes away until next time

posted by ladychardonnay on November 13, 2006 at 7:03 AM | link to this | reply