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Mrs. Tanga
It's sad that you still have a lot of these moments. Knowing what you have written and from my own childhood experiences, I think some of it comes from the lack of being shown affection. I hope you have less of these moments in the future as you learn to live with love more fully.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 21, 2006 at 8:20 AM
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I have lots of these moments.
Mrs Tanga
posted by
Tanga
on October 21, 2006 at 3:59 AM
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markng
Thanks! I'm trying!
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 20, 2006 at 2:22 PM
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Shams-i-Heartsong
I think everyone tends to have moments now and then, but it's good if you've lived free of this for the most part.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 20, 2006 at 2:21 PM
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Whacky
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 20, 2006 at 2:20 PM
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Schatz
I've kinda went through the same thing, only with neglect and some emotional abuse, a lot of which was probably stupidity and inconsiderate ways of adults.
I am the same, I don't care much what people think of me, unless they are really close to me.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 20, 2006 at 2:20 PM
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that is no way to live. be positive. be positive. :D
posted by
markng
on October 20, 2006 at 5:48 AM
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There have moments, but basically, no...
posted by
Shams-i-Heartsong
on October 20, 2006 at 4:25 AM
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No comment.
posted by
Whacky
on October 19, 2006 at 9:29 PM
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When I was a child, yes. I was in an abusive home and had no self esteem.
Since I've been an adult, very seldom do I feel like a loser. Down in the dumps so far that I can't see OUT of the pit sometimes, yes. Gladly, that is usually only for a few days out of a 90 day period. I know lots of people who probably think I'm a loser, but I could give a crap.
posted by
Schatz
on October 19, 2006 at 7:05 PM
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Talion
I still get quite depressed at times, but luckily these days, it passes quickly.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 19, 2006 at 7:00 PM
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Sunnybeach7
While I occasionally get the blues, feel down in the dumps, and such, I don't go to that extent. I'd hope that you wouldn't either.
posted by
Talion
on October 19, 2006 at 6:58 PM
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Afzal
You're so sweet. There are still a lot of times I really feel like a loser.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 19, 2006 at 6:18 PM
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Sweetie, You are not a looser but a winner .Thanks.
posted by
afzal50
on October 19, 2006 at 6:14 PM
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Rumored
It's a horrible, horrible, horrible feeling, isn't it?
I still visit there, from time to time. But haven't done the mirror thing since I've passed my teens.
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 19, 2006 at 6:09 PM
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oh yes, when I was at the height of my depression...also the odd time
since then..
...
posted by
Rumor
on October 19, 2006 at 5:07 PM
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YPunday
They know other words! Hahaha
My daughter likes to hate me. She thinks it helps her get her way with things. And my son copies her.
Thanks for the pic of those beautiful flowers! 
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 19, 2006 at 4:59 PM
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Good question...I hated myself only when I stayed in a bad marriage. Sad to
admit, divorce was the best remedy and balm. But i grew up and became friends with my ex again (for the kids' benefit, or mine?). But delighted u don't say that anymore. The kids say it but don't mean it...you know that. teach them other words, LOL
shalom, Neil
posted by
ILLUMINATI8
on October 19, 2006 at 4:54 PM
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Shelly
posted by
Afzal_Sunny7
on October 19, 2006 at 4:27 PM
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shelly_b
on October 19, 2006 at 4:12 PM
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