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Julia
Me, too. It gave me a chance to rethink my process of healing and understanding myself again.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 8, 2006 at 2:14 AM
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Justi
No, actually they were in Apex, southwest of Raleigh. I work maybe 2 hours from there, on the western side. Thanks for your concern.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 8, 2006 at 2:13 AM
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bel
Yes, it was terrible. It was like a nightmare that wouldn't stop.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 8, 2006 at 2:04 AM
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Blanche
I think it would drag everyone involved down into a spiral of grief all over again. Not that it is something that shouldn't be dealt with; but, for the sake of Michelle's parents, and the little girl's maternal side. I'm not sure what Charles' family feels about it. Maybe a lot of blaming and denial.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 8, 2006 at 2:03 AM
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faholo
Thanks. You're very kind.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 8, 2006 at 2:01 AM
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Julia
Well, I certainly did not expect to feel more pain, but it came nonetheless.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 8, 2006 at 2:01 AM
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I wouldn't recommend it,Avant Garde. You're wise not to.
posted by
Blanche.
on October 8, 2006 at 2:00 AM
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Bhaskar
Yes, I suppose it might be. It would certainly shake things up a bit.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 8, 2006 at 2:00 AM
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Dave
That's just it: it pangs me terribly to write it.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 8, 2006 at 1:59 AM
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Whacky
It might very well be. I would want it to reach the right person, so that she would recognize her situation before it was too late.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 8, 2006 at 1:59 AM
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Blanche
I'm just not sure I want to dwell in darkness for such an extended period again.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 8, 2006 at 1:58 AM
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mystic
Yes, it was. She was easy prey for the likes of a person like Charles.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 8, 2006 at 1:57 AM
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Hi, Avant, just checking back to see if you've added anything.
You're wise to take a break from such memories. I hope all is well.
posted by
Blanche.
on October 7, 2006 at 12:21 PM
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This whole situation is just awful!
posted by
bel_1965
on October 7, 2006 at 8:15 AM
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Hi, Avant-garde, just wanted to stop back and say
you are in my prayer! God will hold you in the palm of His hand if you let Him, Think of God as an innertube in which you can rest and glide over the waves from pain to healing. Bless you,
faholo
posted by
faholo
on October 6, 2006 at 6:16 PM
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Avant--I'm glad you're finally sharing this (tho glad isn't the right word)
posted by
Julia.
on October 6, 2006 at 2:49 PM
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Avant Gard
Are you alright up in NC? Are you near the fires and chemical spils or whaever happened?
posted by
Justi
on October 6, 2006 at 12:16 PM
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avant
A heart-rending, tragic tale. Yes, a just requital will indeed be when you write the book.
posted by
Bhaskar.ing
on October 6, 2006 at 1:21 AM
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I think you have the emotional grip on it in order to write it from the
heart.
posted by
_dave_says_ack_
on October 6, 2006 at 1:12 AM
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Sounds like a best seller to me!
posted by
Whacky
on October 5, 2006 at 10:50 PM
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Avant Garde. If Michelle's parents agree, write the book.
I think you have the eye, the voice and the insight to do it justice and it is a story that needs to be told, for yourself, and to the benefit of others. Your name, Avant-Garde, literally translates into "vanguard"., or educator, that is what you're trying to do, isn't it, educate?
posted by
Blanche.
on October 5, 2006 at 4:56 PM
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avant
perhaps you could. That was a really tragic story my friend.
posted by
MysticGmekeepr
on October 5, 2006 at 4:50 PM
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Cee
It would be a mammoth undertaking. It would also be very piquant. I'm very hesitant to take the first step.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 5, 2006 at 4:45 PM
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Blond Ambition
It was heart-rending.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 5, 2006 at 4:44 PM
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Avant-
By all means, writing would be a way for you to deal with your grief, although I would imagine it would be most difficult at times. What a tragic tale. Writing about it often lets us make sense out of senseless things.
I'm sure with your talent and compassion, this could be a wonderfully moving book.
Cee
posted by
LadyCeeMarie
on October 5, 2006 at 4:41 PM
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nonconformist
That's just it. It's very time consuming. And, the interviewing would take months. I think I'd enjoy the work, though.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 5, 2006 at 4:39 PM
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Avant
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BlondeAmbition007
on October 5, 2006 at 4:39 PM
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Mason
I've learned a lot about forgiveness since this happened. Perhaps this was meant for me to use for such a purpose.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 5, 2006 at 4:38 PM
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Justi
Thank you for your sentiments. They're appreciated.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 5, 2006 at 4:37 PM
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faholo
You're very kind. I'm not going to do it unless everyone agrees that it would be beneficial.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 5, 2006 at 4:37 PM
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OFFBEATS
It made me sick to hear about them giving him a full fire dept funeral.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 5, 2006 at 4:36 PM
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Tanga
I've spoken to the little girl's grandmother. She is a staunch advocate now. But, I have yet to speak to Michelle's parents on the matter.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 5, 2006 at 4:35 PM
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SYMPHONY
It would be exceedingly difficult. I've been told that her parents might not want it done. I need to call and talk to them.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 5, 2006 at 4:34 PM
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Shams-i-Heartsong
That's quite an honor. Thank you.
posted by
avant-garde
on October 5, 2006 at 4:33 PM
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You would feel really good if you wroteit, if you have the time to....
...and it might do good.
posted by
nonconformist
on October 5, 2006 at 2:58 PM
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Try and not lose yourself in the rage... Writing probably would be
very therapeutic... perhaps even a, ' must do.' If the story must be told.. you are the one to write it! You have my sympathy and condolences my friend...
posted by
MasonGarrett
on October 5, 2006 at 12:45 PM
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Avant Gard
For once someone else said all the words I wanted to say. Faholo, thanks! Go for it!
posted by
Justi
on October 5, 2006 at 12:08 PM
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Hugs to you avant-garde! Yes, write the book,
You have a great writing style and your compassion for others is so evident in your writing. God bless you and hold you close as you continue your journey toward peace of heart! Start your book today! Best wishes
faholo
posted by
faholo
on October 5, 2006 at 9:21 AM
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avant
It makes my blood boil when they make a martyr out of a murderer...
posted by
Offy
on October 5, 2006 at 7:13 AM
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A murderer should never
have the honour of receiving a burial with the full regalia. I share your digging up sentiments. I am sure the family would appreciate a book indicating the truth
posted by
Tanga
on October 5, 2006 at 7:02 AM
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I am sorry :~(
I think writing her story is a good idea...
posted by
_Symphony_
on October 5, 2006 at 5:48 AM
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Very powerful story, and your healing is in your blessing...good work
You are the winner of the Compassionate Heart Award for today (5 clicks) See my blog of the same name.
posted by
Shams-i-Heartsong
on October 5, 2006 at 5:35 AM
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