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Kiddo...
I just don't buy that,  that a good one would never come near you.  If you lived up here I'd have to show you what I mean.  Good men are out there, you just have to look harder to find them.

posted by A_Norseman on September 26, 2006 at 12:43 PM | link to this | reply

A Norseman....doesn't sound sappy at all. Sounds sweet. And, you are
right.  But that's just tough shit for me, 'cause no good one would come near me.  So I settle, and gripe,  and moan and groan....woe is me...lol.  Thanks for stopping by again!

posted by Kiddo75 on September 26, 2006 at 10:02 AM | link to this | reply

homegirl - maybe, maybe....lol. But, given the guys I know...
I better keep my smacker to myself.  hehe...

posted by Kiddo75 on September 26, 2006 at 10:00 AM | link to this | reply

the question you should ask yourself, is..

Have you ever really, really kissed?

Just walked u p to somebody and laid one on him?

That's how I got the attention of my husband of 14 years.

posted by homegirl on September 26, 2006 at 4:59 AM | link to this | reply

Kiddo...
You just havn't been kissed by the right man, at the right time, in the right way that's all.  I know alot of guys kiss only because it is a pathway to the panties, their heart isn't really in it...but for some it can truly be a physical manifestation of what they are feeling, when that happens you will feel it too.I know that sounds all sappy and stuff but it's really true.

posted by A_Norseman on September 26, 2006 at 1:03 AM | link to this | reply

TERPGIRL....you hit the nail on the head sister. I am so happy to hear
that you had that, because it is rare.  until you, I would have thought non exsistant.  But when you said something about the fear of never having it again....that is what wears on me the most.  I could die tomorrow, and all I have behind me are a bunch of slimey ass toads with not even their own lily pad to sit their nasty ass on.  At least you had it a couple of times.  Thanks for sharing!

posted by Kiddo75 on September 25, 2006 at 8:59 PM | link to this | reply

I'm stealing this stuff!!!

It's like the Male/female relationship version of Erma Bombeck's world...with a Sarah Bernhardt chaser...after she's had a nasty wax job.

Seriously, I gotta tell you.  I have actually seen stars twice kissing someone.  And I don't believe in that kind of thing.  The first was as a teenager and it was the whole boy next door I worshipped thing, so that makes sense.  The second was a year after a 20 year marriage ended.  The guy was a naval officer and generally a controlled person, and it shouldn't have gone that way.  It was giddy and cute enough to make you puke...sorry. 

The reason I'm telling you this is because after all the years of believing that stuff isn't real, I gotta tell you, I'm scared to death that it will  never happen to me again.  That "it wasn't supposed to happen" moment.  There's no planning for it, but there's a wanting of it.  I'm not sure if I'm happy that I think that way now after years of not thinking that way...or if I'm genuinely disgusted by the putridness of my own stupid thoughts. :)

K

posted by terpgirl30 on September 25, 2006 at 7:47 PM | link to this | reply

Kiddo
This reminds me of my first kisses with my first three boyfriends.  Have you had those kisses? The one's where all of a sudden, all expression gets wiped from their face, (except a completely stupid look), right before they kiss you?  What is that?  And does that problem get better with age? It seems like it mostly affects guys under say 35.  LOL. 

Talk about scary, that look scares the living crap outta me!

posted by Afzal_Sunny7 on September 25, 2006 at 7:39 PM | link to this | reply