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posted by lovelyladymonk on September 22, 2006 at 4:30 PM | link to this | reply

O.K.  I am a big fan of Y & R too!  I'm glad you recognize that you can't help your friend destructive behavior.  I am sure that you can't compare your friend situation to Y & R.  That person wasn't completely out of line, (smile)  however, you can be there for your friend and just be a listener.  Sometimes when I reach that point with other people, I'm just a listener ,  don't say anything,, because your friend needs to vent until she gets over her funk!  If her drama drains you, change the subject or take a break from that friendship until you regain your energy.  But I can tell you from personal experience,  after you get over your drama you will remember those people who helped you along the way.

posted by charice on September 22, 2006 at 3:44 PM | link to this | reply