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Bon soir, Marie! Thanks! I did send God a blog! lol Latest entries in
my haiku and poetic meandering blogs! Gonna go get some sleep now! Take care and I'll see ? you tomorrow!
posted by
swftfox
on July 8, 2006 at 12:48 AM
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Thanks. In NZ no fourth, but a piece of chocolate cake from my chiropractor
who is American. So there. I, too put other people's happiness first and it cost me my marriage probably. Always eager to please, I probably lost myself in the process, and when I finally woke up to myself, I was confronted by other people's selfishness, they prefered my eager to please days. I still think though, that we have to let our kids get on with their own lives. My daughter is happy so I am happy, she is old and mature enough to make her own way. You are doing the right thing, relying on God, send Him a blog!
posted by
marieclaire66
on July 7, 2006 at 4:40 PM
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Yes, Marie, that has always been the case with me, not just my sons
but wives as well. I have always put the happiness of others before mine. Probably why I don't have much happiness, except for seeing others happy. Seems like nobody cares enough about me to worry about my happiness. But anyway, my boys do. It is all good. I just need sleep more than anything else! They are together out shopping for fireworks while I fix food for tonights party! Happy fourth!
posted by
swftfox
on July 4, 2006 at 1:36 PM
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I say this in the hope that it will help.
but then , don't be scared by I am about to tell. Having lost my son, it was excruciatingly painful to watch my daughter move out. I nearly went nuts, but what got me through is the thought, that her happiness came first, and I could not hold her back for my sake. Knowing I set her free really helped, that she is happy is my only consolation. We are really close. Try to enjoy the moment. I know it is hard, but they are in God's care remember. You can get through this, I assure you. Lots of love and prayers.
posted by
marieclaire66
on July 4, 2006 at 3:38 AM
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WOW! I BET A SHRINK WOULD HAVE A BLAST WITH THAT!
posted by
swftfox
on July 4, 2006 at 1:30 AM
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