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fourcats, I have no idea .
posted by
afzal50
on July 4, 2006 at 5:44 PM
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of course i believe in platonic relationships, i've got tons of 'em.
i'm just saying, as a married man your custom of sharing yourself intimately, regardless of lack of sex, is not something that would go over well with north american
wives.
posted by
fourcats
on July 4, 2006 at 4:48 PM
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Lilane , Plea wait to read my rest of the platonic relationships with other
women that I have had with . Wife I can only have four , and at present I am living with one , and separated with one. Ofcourse I have always said that I am in search of good friend who would really understand my mind and my heart .
posted by
afzal50
on July 4, 2006 at 12:25 AM
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platonic
I realize that but with you it could of been another wife
posted by
Lanetay
on July 4, 2006 at 12:17 AM
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Lilane, there is a difference between affair and platonic love .
posted by
afzal50
on July 4, 2006 at 12:03 AM
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affair
but for you you can have more than one wife
posted by
Lanetay
on July 3, 2006 at 10:51 PM
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Fourcats, My wife had no option as this lady was my classmate and we would
have to attend our university lectures daily for about two to three hours and then spend sometime in the famous Coffee House of Calcutta situated at College Street.I think you do not believe in platonic relationship .
posted by
afzal50
on July 3, 2006 at 7:12 PM
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afzal
A regular prince charming!!
posted by
TIMMYTALES
on July 3, 2006 at 7:08 PM
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TIMMYTALES,You must have been very handsome for everyone to be your fan.
posted by
afzal50
on July 3, 2006 at 7:06 PM
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and what did your wife think of all this? because it's most unusual for us
average western hemisphere types and i don't personally know any women that would be content knowing their husband was in the company of another woman. and that's another thing. you say you were young and innocent but you were married with child so you weren't THAT innocent. what
did your wife think?
posted by
fourcats
on July 3, 2006 at 7:02 PM
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Yes Blackcat30 you got it right . I was the most ordinary kind of youth and
could not provide any clue for their suspicion.
posted by
afzal50
on July 3, 2006 at 6:49 PM
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afzal
I can't remember anything like that as an adult. Growing up, there were plenty of girls and parents that thought I was the greatest. (boy were they wrong!!)
posted by
TIMMYTALES
on July 3, 2006 at 6:30 PM
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Her parents were concerned about you having an affair, but once they
met you, they didn't worry anymore?
posted by
-blackcat
on July 3, 2006 at 6:28 PM
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Ariala, I was guessing that her parents might have suspected an affair .
My relationship was purely spiritual and based on intellectual angle.I will futher relate to you how we spent one morning under one blanket without feeling any physical excitement .
posted by
afzal50
on July 3, 2006 at 6:21 PM
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Eh, platonic love means friendship and nothing physical...do I understand
correctly? You also used the word "affair" so I was confused...affair usually denotes "other types" of relations. Not judging, just asking
posted by
Ariala
on July 3, 2006 at 6:04 PM
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