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But I dont share with another

posted by Lanetay on July 3, 2006 at 7:32 AM | link to this | reply

No, I will not be with another provided you accept my proposal.

posted by afzal50 on July 3, 2006 at 7:27 AM | link to this | reply

afzal50
No I don't expect my man to be a bachelor like a virgin for the very first time, but to be with me only, if we have a committed relationship to each other.  How can you be with another if you are truly in love?

posted by Lanetay on July 3, 2006 at 6:32 AM | link to this | reply

Lilane, It is not the practice in India or in any country .
As a Muslim I have a choice of having 4 wives and if I choose you to be my wife would you accept it .Is it that you do not like married men or is it that you want to marry a bachelor . What is the guarentee that a bachelor will not maintain relationship with somebody beyond your relationship ?

posted by afzal50 on July 3, 2006 at 4:51 AM | link to this | reply

afzal50
Maybe its different in India but when you marry its because you are in love and you are suppose to keep your vows and stay with the person you gave you love to.  Why be married? I havent been married for 22 years and have been a few too many men and a few have been married, but I learned that wouldnt work

posted by Lanetay on July 2, 2006 at 10:10 PM | link to this | reply

Lilane , I fail to understand why people make so much fuss about marriage.
Marriage is a social ,religious, and cultural responsibility which many are bound to uphold not because they like it but because they are compelled to . Human heart has many segments it has fold within fold .Love is larger and deeper than marriage.

posted by afzal50 on July 2, 2006 at 9:40 PM | link to this | reply

married
Because I cant give my heart to someone who is married

posted by Lanetay on July 2, 2006 at 9:27 PM | link to this | reply

posted by syzygy on July 2, 2006 at 9:10 PM | link to this | reply

Dear Lilane, why is marriage deterrent to your heart ?

posted by afzal50 on July 2, 2006 at 8:59 PM | link to this | reply

afzal50
Marriage is a detterent to my heart

posted by Lanetay on July 2, 2006 at 8:20 PM | link to this | reply

Yes , unfortunately so .Do you think marriage ever acts as a deterrent to
relationships ?

posted by afzal50 on July 2, 2006 at 8:17 PM | link to this | reply

marriage
So does mean you are still married?

posted by Lanetay on July 2, 2006 at 8:05 PM | link to this | reply